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whosthat @whosthat

Hey guys.
I want to share something here… Feelings actually. I’m so confused, there are these fleeting thoughts going on in my mind… Sometimes, I want to believe them, other times I term it as overthinking.
The problem isn’t new, not something almost everyone person here hasn’t been through already… I only need some clarity for now🥺
I like this guy. And he’s kinda far. We met online. He’s heart broken and he loved his ex immensely. He used to be a close shell… … But he opens up a bit now. We talk on call almost all night. We chat during the days. Sometimes I think he likes me… But he says he cannot love again, ever. There’s this girl, he calls her as his bestfriend. I also think, that he likes her! The way he talks about her… I don’t know what to do… Trying to figure this out, I can’t. I don’t want to lose the friendship by coming out with my feelings… Help! Anyone!? 🥺

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Anonymous

See i am gonna be honest with you. Online relationships , especially the one you are in , dont work. You are in a situationship. I would recommend you talking less and focus on something else. Dusra banda dhund lo. Of you pursue this more he will be the reason of long term trauma for you

whosthat @whosthat

Haha… Situationship. Like that word❤ also, true words, don’t wanna head there🤦‍♀️

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Anonymous

How old are you anyway? You will find other guys easily

whosthat @whosthat

24 y/o
It’s not about finding guys. Been there. It’s that one person I really like

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Anonymous

Well we all have that ‘one person’. But were not the same ‘one person’ to them. Trust me, he wont go for you , and its not because you dont deserve him its because he already has someone else in mind.

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Anavrin @anavrin

If you wait, you can be late. Don’t regret afterwards. If you two have a good bond, tell him, even if he is not interested, you can continue the friendship. It might be tough at first eventually it’ll be alright

whosthat @whosthat

We do, actually. That is where the confusion lies. You know what, he says he has no feelings whatsoever for his bestfriend, but then the he talks about her… Says another story. I’m in a dilemma
I really don’t think that after confessing, if our feelings aren’t mutual, I’ll be ever able to talk to him😐

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Anavrin @anavrin

If you feel love, don’t hide. Express it. Don’t regret afterwards. I also have guy best friend he’s very close to me but don’t have any feelings for me and i don’t have either. You go girl

whosthat @whosthat

Thankyou! 💞

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