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Anonymous

Hey guys. I need advice. i’ve been dating this guy. He was the sweetest person and the deepest connection i’ve ever had with anyone. The day i asked him to me my partner, his mom banned him from talking to me… we agreed that we wouldn’t break up and talk again in 2 weeks when he got his phone back. It has since been 7 months. Recently he told me that during the 2 weeks he kissed someone. Throughout our relationship he has flirted with his friends (laying in laps, wearing hoodies, etc) he even hung out a few times with the person he kissed and their partner. He definitely has changed a lot in the last 2 months… but the trust issues made me leave him today. I have BPD (borderline personality disorder) and breakups are already hard for me… but this was the deepest and most intimate i’ve ever been with a person… i guess what i’m asking is should i end things for good? and how do i move on if i do?

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Sanket @sanket

It is really sad to see such people who do not care about what they get and then there are people who want to be a real partner but they never get a chance.
Just because this is your deepest connection does not make sense to stay connected however you could think about giving another chance with strict boundaries
The answer to “moving on” will never be useful unless you understand how moving on happens.
When and how are not the correct questions, instead you just need to feel it and let time play its role

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Anonymous

I have had borderline. Cry as much as you want till it stops hurting. Abd then get up and walk away as if nothing happened. Try it. It works.

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Anonymous

i really want to, but they are in every aspect of my life. Literally whatever i do reminds me of them…

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