Hey everyone, Iām having a real problem with my family. I want to say, I donāt doubt that Iām lucky having such supportive and really kind parents and sister, but I donāt feel free. Iām sixteen now and I am not allowed to make my own decisions even when I have my arguments. For example it is prohibited for me to travel or go on a holiday neither with friends, nor with relatives for even just one day, I cannot easily tell my friends Iām coming with them to a party because of my srtict parents. I totally respect their thoughts, rules and points of view, but I donāt see that it is fair when they only refuse a āsuggestionā I make without any reason to convince me and change my mind. Iām talking generally about how they are overprotective and donāt let me live my teenage freely. I donāt ask this total freedom, I actually only need some of it in order to have an opportunity to prove my responsibility and maturity. I feel that I need to be free and make my own decisions but they just say NO. I tried to discuss this with them, I tried some ways to show them I can be trustworthyā¦ and unfortunately it didnāt workā¦ I need your help guysā¦ what should I do?
Unfortunately kids with strict parents start to disobey . Coz theres no other way for you to enjoy. And i think you should do it once, coz always being overprotective about you would never let you grow and become mature. Sneak out and disobey. Youre a teenager and thats what teenagers do. If you always become a good biy in your parents eyes, trust me you are missing on a lot of learning and growth opportunities
I know thatās what I hear a lot these daysā¦ But Iām not sure this is a good ideaā¦ I mean, Iām thinking about the consequences, if I enjoy a single day, maybe I will get punished for a week. I donāt know, it also sounds scary ādisobeying parentsāā¦
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