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Hey everyone,
I really need someone’s advice right now the thing is that my family doesn’t support me at all they think whatever I do is useless and the most scariest person is my brother he treats me like an orphan
Please someone tell me how to deal with this

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Hey, I actually kind of understand you, same thing happened to me. My family just doesn’t care about what I do or what I like. They never supported me in any activities or competitions. They never acted like my parents …more like people who just want to take care of me. I had to do all the parent work by myself (in schools they give forms to parents about a concern topic or it can also be an email to a teacher but the main point is that I had to do all that by myself) Tbh, I often wondered if I was adopted. But what I never realized was that was their way of teaching me how to be independent and to be able to rely on myself. I guess it is a bit weird and a little harsh but that’s what thought me to be a independent person and of course they do love me and take care of me whenever I am sick and rarely help me when I am stuck but I am still a little grateful for that. I know deep down that it’s their way of showing love to me.

anyways, what I wanted to tell you was that it might be because that’s how their parents might have raised them or they might think that’s the way you should raise a child. But I can assure you that no matter what they will always love you and care for you.

and about your sibling trust me that’s how all siblings are (-_-) (they are annoying). I have an older brother and he keeps beating me up and calling me names I don’t like and intentionally hurts me but he cares about me even though we both hate each other. Growing up I spend most of my time fighting with my brother than with my friends ( I was basically a loner … )

But then again of course there are few families that might be a bit toxic but I want you to think about how much you love and care about your family. By the way it would be great to spend more time with your family. Maybe even try to talk to them about how you feel about it.

I am not sure if I was able to help you today but I hope so…

“You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.”
* ~Desmond Tutu *

Just do it silently and make your work make noise