Hey every one, I m new to this app actly there is no one with whom I can share my feeling so I thought this is a good medium to share, I really feeling n trapped in a bad Marriage,my husband loves me but he is short Tempered, Sometime it is difficult to handle him I did lovemarriage so I can’t share this with my parents also, he is good I will say vry good when he is happy but when he is angry he becoms monster, he don’t care me , he is unpredictble u l not know when he l become angry,I think twice befre sharing anything with him as he may get angry, I just want to give my life don’t know what to do
TeeJay @dran89
My sympathies to you Madam. Do you think some legal help will help you here? If this has been happening a lot, you need to get out of that marriage. He needs therapy. And you need help. Better to get out early rather than later and make it messy for your kid(s) (if you have any).
Ya but I love him and u know when he is not in state of anger He cares for me loves me take care of me at that time he First thinks about me, he doesnot hav any bad habit no drinking nothing only prblm is his anger, I always try to not make him angry but I failed
TeeJay @dran89
Unless you get him some anger management therapy, DO NOT get a baby. Such anger issues are very bad for a household with kids. If anger is his only problem, then therapy is the only solution.
He will not get ready for the therapy n we r not rich enough to get therpy
Going through comments I got ur story.
Thing is, are you really happy with him n wanna stay ya fir just cuz it was love marriage n now u are afraid to leave.
How often he get angry n become destructive, like once in a month or frequent.
Someone suggested ki atleast bp check krwa lo, n thts needed. Therapy k liye directly u can’t say but agar bp high ata h toh maybe indirectly u can speak to him regarding his anger issues.
Ap jitna late kroge things gonna get more worse.
No I love him n he loves me too but it is his anger which is destructive with the anger life is heaven but 15 days k baad baad gussa chalo ho jata h or samjh nahe ata unka gussa chote chote bato pe hota ha sayad work stress ho or woh bohot jayada sensitive h dil kke bure nahe h lekin gusa ane pe kich nahe samajhte woh khud nahe jante kia unko ho jata h
