Hey,
Don’t know how to put this in words but anyways I’ll try.
I fall for guys who are my best friends. And always get friendzoned. Also, the very same guys fall for my girl best friends.
Even though I make efforts more than anyone and they ends up taking me for granted.
Why does this happen to me? It’s been twice. I don’t know what is it, that I don’t have and other girls have.
Is it that I am always there and the guys don’t get to chase. Which makes them not being interested in me. Or that I am not meant for all this. Or that they just go for looks and not personality.
It hurts me when the guy bestfriends ignore me. Like dude at least respect the friendship you have with me. I don’t think I deserve being treated like that.
Just hope no one go through such stuff in their life.
It is a harsh truth that many people go for looks. They might not be even ur best friend. Maybe they befriended u hoping that u may set them up with ur girl bestie.
But i wish u luck. U may find a friend who loves u for who u r. I don’t know u, but i wish to find someone like u. A friend who cares and knows looks aren’t everything.
Idk man I feel numb now. It’s like I don’t even know what’s happening around me.
Sister consider me as you brother and listen to my advice for the first and last time. There is no such thing as love. If there is it’s very rare. And If you find one that’s worth keeping.
You know I’ve learnt this the hard way. And I’ve understood that there is only seduction on outer world. People will not ‘love’ you they will seduce you. I suggest you read a book called art of seduction by Robert green. Will open your eyes for once and all
I have started to feel the same now. I sure will read that book.
And thank you for taking time out.
Don’t misguide sir. Love exists. And it is amazing. Pure. Unconditional. However the person u love look, she or he will be the most beautiful person in the entire world. And it’s not just abt s*x or such attraction. It’s different n divine.
Isn’t this all fairy tale stuff. I don’t know how to perceive it. Maybe it’s all about romanticising it. Even though it’s not that much.
Illusion?
No. It’s not fairy tale stuff. It’s real. Very much. But it will only sustain for the long term with consistent effort from both sides.
Well another reality is that no one wants to make that much of efforts.
Then how do someone experience what you called divine.
Effort is just good n responsible behaviour with respect n trust. That’s easy.
