Hey all…I hope you people can help me out with this. My situation is… I m happily engaged to my dream man whom I love sincerely, he is the right person and we are deeply connected to each other. We are planing for marriage after this pandemic subsides.
Inspite of being with such beautiful man, my mind gets distracted to his friend, who is my friend too…the common friend. Before engagement with my finacee, I was kind of interested and attracted to his friend and we had casual flirty conversations. His friend and me wer both attracted physically to each other ( no sexual fling) but there was this sexual chemistry. But I was very clear that I cudnt make a life with him as we were very different and had no mental level connection.
But still…I proposed him one day, he said he was not sure…and then I backed off…and within a week his frnd ( my fiancee) brought the alliance and I was elated to knw him coz he was always the man I ever wanted. And when his frnd saw that I am moving forward, he proposed me back, and I rejected coz I liked my fiancee like hell.
Could anyone explain what is my situation…why my mind gets distracted from my fiancee? One thing to mention is that his frnd whom I had a lil flirt sessions is very handsome witty and charismatic, but he is not the man I ever wanted to marry. So why is my mind giving energy to him when I have my beautiful man with me?
Help me guys
