Hereβs my story. A friend of mine made a racist comment on me and when I called him out for it, he at first said sorry and told me that he wanted to make me feel better. Then he spread lies to our common friends on how I was harassing him over this and how I keep texting him and calling him over this when heβs busy at work. Common friends believed him and told me to grow up and not harass someone over something as petty as this and what followed was a 45 minute session of gaslighting and lies. I feel miserable. Need some positivity.