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Here’s a thing I have been friends with person or u can say more than friends with him it’s a mutual thing we like each other we love each other , we have different religions we don’t know what gonna happen in future but we are seeing the present . He’s older than me like 3 years . He confessed both the times . First time also but there were misunderstanding between us so we didn’t talk much after that . But after 2 years I guess . He again contacted me I was giving my boards when he contacted me again . We got to know each other through insta and afterwards we exchanged numbers and started talking talking . In the present situation I don’t know what I feel i dk but it’s like ove mhim kuch more than myself we have been in a 4 months in a relationship met once because of my family strictness . But know each other soo well . When I think that I ain’t suitable for him like can’t meet his expectations like he doesn’t say anything about it he says that is okay it’s good for him a. He doesn’t complains about it he has8 said anything about his expectations but it’s what I feel when I confeot hum about this he says no one suitable than me for him what happening I do,n’t know about it can anyone tell me help me out through thiss situation please 🥺

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Anonymous

What is he and what are u?

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Anonymous

What do you mean and can you please elaborate

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U r overthinking…
If he is saying u r best he can get n u also love him so much then why you have to think of deserving undeserving…if seriously u r getting this thought again then u should part ways for that’s guys better sake…cause if u keep bombarding with i m deserving for u or not and him proving yes yes he will end up losing that love for u

Sidhu @mikey12

Ur just overthinking,take some time to reconstruct what is happening between u & him and take wise decision

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Indulge more with him… not just based on the chemistry u both have…but also compatibility…are you both sharing the same values…seeing a future together…yes I know you are just building a relationship may be just feeling how good it feels to have somebody you love…but religious differences and family conflict is a major issues…even the same happened with me the understanding and chem shared with him are I never found and might never would but left the relationship…because I can never convert…my valued differed from his…when it all started we didn’t have any clue…how it will go in the future…but we liked each other so much eventually fell in love…but after 4 years when I m 23 he is 24…he didn’t want to let me go…but logically I had to this…because I know the end…took 2 years to accept…still accepting he…is gone…willl marry someone else…but I chose myself my values ( secularism, to work after marriage also)…and my family…which I can’t compromise…if you don’t have any such parameters…then go ahead …otherwise you will get hurt a lotttttttttt!!!

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