Help if you can!
I am not feeling to do the things these days which can help me in better mental health or something to work on self-love or care. I don’t like how I have turned myself into this saddest person slowly when I was the happy person to be around. Earlier, I didn’t use to talk much to people, but when I got advised to open up and talk to people more, I feel I just get used by people, people just trick me with their fakeness, this even drowning me more when I thought yes I got people like me more say good friends, our thoughts, vibes match, etc, But no, all I get is I am the dumb person to be around.
Other than that, it’s a very important phase of my life soon I will be getting out of my college and gotta find jobs in corporates and I find myself at the worst level now where I shouldn’t be, when I should be working on my skills which will land me a job, but I fall into this deep hole.
Raingirl @rianayak
I can totally relate to what you are feeling even I feel I fail at making friends people only use me for their selfish interest and it’s been around a year now that I have totally cut down those people I won’t lie sometimes I feel bad I care how they must be feeling and I feel lonely at times thinking I don’t have any friends but trust me the mental peace that you get by cutting off these toxic people from your life is something you cannot compromise it feels lonely but it feels peaceful and eventually you need to realise that no one can always be by your side it’s only you who will be there for you and I feel you are on the right track to make things better for yourself the first step to really get up from this emotional mess is to accept what’s wrong it’s good that you are seeing what went wrong you are accepting your fears now it’s time to take action towards what really matters for you and take actions which your future self will thank you for …all the very best I wish you happiness above all
Hugs
Yeah, I also do feel that now, it’s better to feel lonely than being with the toxic people, I got my peace at least. I will try to help myself now from all this. Thanks for your kind reply💛
I wish best for you too🖤
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Most importantly, you are UNIQUE. No one is DUMB. Take it easy, if you have a loving family, stay connected with them. or siblings, or cousins. Focus on your strengths. If you have a pet, spend more time. If you have no financial issues and have a secure home, push ur self to exercise at least 1 hour everyday, does wonders for your good mood hormone. I was called dumb and fat till i was 20! Everyone laughed at me. Changed myself, my appearance, got myself a good job, and hung out with people not because they cared for me, but because i could learn more from them. Stay calm, this too shall pass. Though times for everyone
Yeah, I started doing exercise at home, can’t do more than 20 minutes tho, and other things I don’t have, I am not giving up tho. Your reply gave me a ray of hope. Thank you💛
