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@shammalhotra

Hello to evryone
so ,i just want to tell that i am a person who is working hard for my goals but many tims i got jealous of other people that why are they ahead of me. sometimes i even jealous of my real brother. and i m feeling very down that how can i even jealous of my own brother. can anyone please suggest me how should i overcome from this jealousy and feel happy always of me and others. never jealous of anyone and no thinking so muh.

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Anmol Arora @anmolarora

Hey, You are not the only one who feels this way!

Even I do sometimes but that doesn’t make me less of a brother to him. I assume you to be in phase in life when it’s time to prove to the world and society of your capabilities and you are compared with all around you.

Just know it’s all about timing in life. Your efforts would fruit at the time they are supposed to. There is a way you can get over this jealousness that you feel and that is by having humility to seek help from your brother and seek his guidance in minor steps initially. It will not make you feel low to him.Just know you’re one step closer in fulfilling your dreams.

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Ujjwal @ubrdj

I saw something a couple of days back and I feel this can help you out to some extent(relating to the comparison issue)
I hope you understand Hindi🙏🙏
Please review whenever you get time…It may seem to be targeting the male audience only but it actually applies to almost everyone as there is something to learn from everything(there may be instances where the language maybe inappropriate but the main goal of this video is worthy enough to overlook that)

https://youtu.be/RlYvStmDCJo

Take care and stay blessed!!

@kusum

Hi dear,
It is very human to get jealous
So pls stop feeling guilty about this…
Stop blaming urself for it …
Now to get over this enviness
1.shift ur entire focus on urself
Try to be better n best version of urself.
2.if ur bro has got something which u donot have
There are many things which u have and he doesnot have.
Because ultimately everyone cannot get everything in life…
Minuses n pluses are always there.
3.ACCEPT URSELF AS U ARE WITH ALL YOUR STRENGTHS N WEAKNESSES …
4.Putting efforts or hardwork is in ur hand
Outcome isnot in ur control
So u just focus on working hard …
Rest all will set right…
Put ur heart and soul in ur activities…

See dear in life some ppl are very lucky n some are not that lucky
But then by crying over ur destiny or luck you willnot get anything
Instead put ur efforts n energy in chasing what you want

You are a wonderful person
Have full faith in urself.
Good luck
God bless
Keep shining keep smiling
Take care.

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