Hello
So I’m a very sensitive person and I just overthink almost everything.
So I have a crush, I used to talk to him daily and like a lot he’s my best friend like I consider him my best friend I didn’t propose him or told him about my feelings because it might ruin our friendship. So from the past 2 days he’s kinda avoiding me like leaving me on read etc. I’m not able to focus on my online lectures checking my phone every few minutes to see if he messaged me, he kinda likes my friend… Idk what’s happening and even when I start a conversation he seems so uninterested. Idk what I should do please someone help.
Either he got super busy suddenly, like the world will crash if he doesn’t work… Or, he might have finally gotten your friend to say yes
Like, he used you as a method of getting connected. Now that his purpose is fulfilled, he doesn’t want to leave loose ends.
If he seems uninterested,just don’t squish him with conversation.Just try to snap out of it,he isn’t only fish in the sea,so try to be happy and let him go,he doesn’t know what is he going to miss.I was in same situation.And at the end he kinda realised i was in love with him but he didn’t do anything about it.Sooo,time passed we were still friends,and i healed,but he realised what he lost,and he even tryed to kiss me several times,but baby it’s too late :D
i cried and cared alot about what will he do,but that only made me stronger and i realised that we don’t need boys,boys need us!!
It’s better to seek real men.
Boys would remain immature and always have their needs fulfilled first even when they have entered a relationship.
Men, on the other hand, would put the collective needs at first than just his own needs.
Sudiptaa @sudiptaaaa
I think he was just using you to get with your friend. He’s a douche bag. Forget about him. Also crushes don’t last that long. Just don’t think about it be a Boss as bitch and ignore him. You deserve better 💖
Since he keeps trying to cut the conversation short or not talk at all I don’t see no reason for you to push yourself. Don’t think about it buds.
I saw soo many comments n those are really good…but I would just say one thing I learned…don’t put too much effort on someone who’s not even thinking about u… TREAT HIM LIKE HE TREATS YOU… simple you deserve much better… trust me
I had same intial days …but stillI continued being there for him even when I knew that he liked my bestfriend .I think I unknowingly thought that I had a chance …and when he broke up with my bestie I wiped every tear of his ,spent my nights staying on call with him making sure that he is alright …but then one fucking day I stopped talking to him cz he was back to his ex without even considering to tell me about it .He didn’t call me either so v left …He was gone I was gone …he dint make any effort to ask if anything was wrong with us…never bothered if I’m sad or angry or unwell …time passed and one day after 7 months I just casually called him cz my intuition said tht he isn’t doing well in life …that day he talked asusual with me as if nothing ever happened …it hurted so bad …though he tagged me as special person for his life his actions never proved it …he is still suffering in his love life but this time I left …I left him knowing that he’s going through terrible things…cz helping him worsens things for me …so I want to say if a person isn’t interested in u no matter what u do they always end up going to person whom they like…thts wht I learnt from the things that I have gone through…if you still wanna give it a try then be ready for countless sleepless tearful nights and days …
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