 Hello 
So I like a boy we have a great bond but I'm afraid to date him. Whenever I think something like this my past comes in front of me and I think things will be the same and I just leave those things but that boy makes me happy I feel so good when I'm around him. I am really confused about this. 
Should I date him or give some time to myself 

In last year Nov, but then after 6 months my x returned but now I have cut all connection with him

So 3-4 months after you cut all connection with your ex. I think its enough time . Tell this guy how you feel

Crush

Recently, a guy from my school time came in contact. During school times I just saw his face in school that's all. Few months back he came into contact and just texted me. He asked to me to go out with him. I said no. Because I don't know him. Recently he texted me again in fb and asked my phone number. I gave him. I just want to treat him as a normal person not hurt his feelings. But these days he is asking me to go out with him. Want to do video call to me. He even texting me during my working hours. When I didn't check my phone and didn't gave any reply. He is telling that you got busy. I don't know what to do in this situation. I'm feeling so tired and just feeling like I did a mistake.

Jst had a breakup.....till today din have the courage .....was in a confusion wethr or not to....i felt that our relationshp was not a genuine 1 both of us wer tired of each othr...even if we marry it wont go well....i always felt he had some toxic traits....my instinct always signalled me that this was not gonna b gud....but my heart used to always ignore it....i dont knw wat feeling i have now....i still luv him...but i m jst done wid this....throughout the relationshp i had this confusion wether this guy wud be gud 4 me....i havent felt that pure feel of luv frm him..... I dont knw wethr its a ryt decision or not....i will miss him....anyway watever comes up shud b dealt with...

Relationships

So, the last years I was in long-distance relationship. But the person is afraid of being committed and after 2 years without seeing each other in flesh decided to break up with me. We have been together for something like 4 years. At the same time he doesn't want to lose me and is asking me to wait, trust him and give him a chance. I don't know what all that means.
We both love each other a lot but the fact is that he is not ready for the commitments under being a couple (even though I almost don't ask anything from him) especially when now in covid we can't see each other.
The problem is that I know he doesn't really feel like being with anyone and he can exist by himself. On the other hand, I don't feel comfortable being alone. But I also tried to ge to know other people and the problem is that I don't feel them attractive. Maybe they are attractive physically, but I don't feel any good connection with anyone around. And now I'm afraid of ending up being alone and I don't know what to do. That's so sad. 

Im tired of crying the same things with him and I feel he doesn't care about me anymore and he is distancing himself from me and im always the one texting him since he leavens me on delivered and don't talk to me a whole day and I just want to know what wrong with him but everything I ask him he ask me and says the same answer as me and I just dont know what to do. He told me he was gonna play and I said oh okay but I haven't get a message  from him since yesterday and it has happen this week a lot  im just confused about this.

I think I’m in love with my best friend but idk what to do. He isn’t into me the way I’m into him

Love

Hurt and confused and in pain
We met through tinder. Had decided it was just for sex. Met. Hooked up. But we both kept chatting everyday and every night. 
Shared our hurts and pains. Shared our happiness and everything in between. Fought. Made up. Broke up. Got back together. 
I fell in love with him. Told him. He said that he loved me but diatanced himself a little from me. 
After that whenever we met it wasn't just sex. We spent time talking, watching movies, drinking and laughing. 
He was out of country for almost 2months. Due to time difference had a lot of fights. Took his silent treatment many times. Patched things up but always talked when he wanted virtual sex. Fought due to this. I got attached and he broke my heart and me by saying that I had no right over him. Kept saying "we are not a couple".
Accepted it. Tried moving on. Stopped talking. He came back to India. He kept messaging. Saying that I didn't care for him and many emotional things to take him back. I said yes for being just friends. But he wanted to talk daily and I did. 
He keeps telling me about other girls in his life. How some one proposed him for marriage and sends me screenshots of their chats. It hurts to hear this. 
I was supposed to meet him after 4months but he cancelled last minute and I snapped. I fought and he got angry. I was on a call with a guy friend when he kept messaging and so I replied late and said I was in on a call with a friend.
From that moment I have heard a lot about how I should meet any guy and sleep with them. I tried and tried to make him understand that I wasn't sleeping with anyone else but no use. And now we are not talking again. Broken up for good I feel. 
He says we aren't a couple, yet expects me to not think about dating anyone. He can sleep with anyone he wants to but I am not allowed the same liberty. 
What should I do? I am so confused and this sudden  silent treatment from him is causing me actual physical pain along with mental anguish

Breakup

How to get over someone? Help please 

Now a days am rly feeling low...... Feeling depresed.... In ths 5 yrs of marriage we went through so many ups and downs... And we faced tht together.... I was rly happy to get my childhood sweetheart my life partner...  But now a days... He is sm kind of different... He keeps distance from me... We talk little much.... Some times he jz get irrirated... He never express his feelings.... I kwn he is not happy with me.. I kwn i not a perfect wife typz... I hv my flaws... I try to became better... But somtimes i do mistakes... He never talk abt that.. So sometimes i dont kwn what my mistak was.. Sitting at home really msking me sick.. But when i thnk abt my baby.. I jz endur al my pain... She is so cute......

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