Hello. So here’s my story.
I met a boy about 13 years ago. We went to university together but our friendship didn’t really become close until a few years later. It was then when I started to develop very strong romantic feelings towards him. He claimed to be bisexual, though spent most of his time chatting up guys on Tinder and sleeping with many of them. He assured me he could feel sexual and romantic attraction towards women, though he was never seen with one.
On January 2019 I told him I loved him and he said it couldn’t be without any other explanation. He ambiguously rejected my without telling me why. He somehow stated we were on different phases and the relationship wouldn’t work out. Nonetheless, he kept on meeting men and showing romantic and sexual interests as far as them implied.
I never gave up on this unrequited love. But now, for the very first time in his life, this friend of mine has an official boyfriend, his very first ever boyfriend. And I’ve been left out as the ONLY person in my social circle who not only lacks a romantic partner, but also never has had a beautiful love story herself. I’m almost 31.
I feel lost, sad, left out and confused.
I just needed to blurt this out to someone.
Good you blurted…probably the door to the next phase is through just saying it loud.
Hey, from what you’ve told, don’t know the peculiarities of it but this guy friend if yours is clearly gay completely… you should really stop bothering your own mental peace and expecting any thing out of this… work on yourself and your emotions, you’re 31. Everybody isn’t lucky enough to find their fairytales soon, it some times does take a little more time, but I’m sure some one out there really deserves you and you’ll find someone. Just be strong, and keep working on your own better self❤️
Hey, I feel like you shouldn’t bother much about not having a romantic partner. You seem like someone who can care and be there for the person who you love, so be that person for yourself.
Companionship is important, I agree. But first begin to believe in yourself and not consider yourself to be as someone who doesn’t have a romantic partner or a beautiful love story. Create one for yourself, with yourself. Take Care, you. ✨✨
