Hello!! Lately I have been going through a change in myself. Iām forcing myself to change something that meant world to me. I have always been a gentle hearted person. Love unlike what it has become, I used to believe in something much more deeper, wanted to be by someoneās side who would accept my stupid love concepts, and I waited a pretty long while and was ready to wait even more.
But turn of events, I just canāt promise an eternity anymore, I just donāt wanna get married, some stupid concepts and some events made me take such decisions.
And I canāt leave someone I love brokenhearted at the end.
So a girl who havenāt had even a guy friend, is giving up on waiting for her stupid love dreams and trying to go casual dating. Though this gonna take me another few years to accept before I start.
Letās see where my fate takes me.
I can maybe feel what you are going through. When our innocent self is broken up, all the things around what we value the most in ourselves break as well. There is nothing and no one which can stop the cascaded collateral damage. Its difficult to endure. Let me know if you wish to talk more!!
Hey listen to me what is wrong to think abt love and you never known who can fall for you and why are you giving hope ha and what is wrong in dreaming and Iām here and I can be your first guy friend if you want and do not let yourself down okay
U know even I was that kinda person one man woman had invested soo much in that man only for him to turn extreme toxic and hurt me in every wayā¦I too ended up in casual dating but given my innate nature, we are now getting serious about each other yet taking it slow, he wants it but Iām not yet ready and itās okay if u have seen dear zindagi when Kabir says if we go for two three shops just to take the perfect chair then y soo easy when choosing a life partnerā¦itās okay to choose wisely and have the courage to stop when u see itās heading nowhere after all itās question of two lives and dating is fine and untill u find ur the one itās gonna be casual only just be honest to urself and the person whether itās casual or serious and u can still find someone who will adore your stupid Love concepts
Whoa! You must be my mirror image. Our stories are completely the same. How are you coping with the current reality?
If I speak honestly itās like a roller coaster rideā¦I just get flashbacks of my pvs relationship and start missing my ex feel like I will never receive that kinda love again and also know the fact that how much toxic and manipulative it was and I attracted that kinda person cz of my toxic householdā¦and with all these conflict have this man in my life now who started things casually with me but now we both have gotten serious he wants to step up but the conflict Iām going thru itās difficult for me and I wonāt be able to be soo much vulnerable to him and he knows n has seen my past so heās quite understanding of itā¦yet thereās fear what if weāre not meant to be do I have the heart to break his heart or go thru one more heartbreak but getting scared and shutting out isnt the answer we live just once as I read today here get busy living or get busy dying!
Yes, thanks alottā¦ venting out here has really been soo peaceful with such great community like you peeps to support n motivateššš
Donāt try to solve everything at once. Take baby steps and see how you feel when you are with him.
If everything goes right, more power to you! If it doesnāt, donāt be sad and be what you always wanted to be
Yes trying to take it slow and let everything unfold naturally not concluding anythingā¦thanks for the advice. Take careš
