Hello, its a very long story of mine. I will try to convey in short.
I was in 8years of relation.
I am the person with always excited to learn new things, going around, crossed difftrn states for the purpose of studies and he z like completely opp to me.he very possessive, doubting. I felt it ok… coz of his insecurity being not entertaining, not social, inferior to talk. So he use to compel me not to talk with any other male friends.
I followed his words.
I worked in 2 govtnmtl organisations wer one was totally remote area. One day as there was no transport facility i came with my colleague. Next day he called to my colleagues and officers saying not allow to talk friendly, not to drop her…we had fight of 1 day… i felt dats ok…
We were in physical relation for giving him assurance that i wont leave him…
We stay in the same city but he will never come to meet me. I need to urge him.
He went to an extreme wer e he not allowed me to talk with my jiju n not allowed me to stay with them for a while.
I only felt he loves me too much… so these were the consequences.
In the other organisation i my colleague was6years junior to me and going to married in nxt couple of months.he was a good person with high ambitious. One day he invited me for pub as it was very first time for me i was little excited and had drinks lead to me out off control.
As it was late …my hostel was closed.he took me to hotel. But nothing physical has happen between us coz he know abt my love.
From that next day i never met him again i felt guilty n resigned to that job too.
After my resignation he enquired about me at office and as he was keep on asking me. I said what ever happened.
Now he is saying he cant lead with me…
I really want to know that did i do unforgivable mistake?
Is that mistake makes to forget 8years of relation?
He z abusing me…no one in his family, colleagues, friends know about me…
But i conveyed to my parents about him long time back…
Now he avoiding me… moving out with other girls…
Will he come back??
Did i do un forgivable mistake??
No you did not do anything wrong about the relationship.The thing you did wrong was to quit your job for him.
Feel free to DM in case you want to talk more about it
No , u did nothing wrong . And also , u didn’t have to resign the job
Ya i resigned… it was my primary reason… n all other reasons to dragged me to do so… i felt…its better to relieve…
Abhijeet A.K @akabhi
I don’t think he loves you unconditionally
Here I see only you love him so much that u can do anything for him.
I know this feeling what you going through bcoz I had been in similar situation long back and I moved on
Can’t give a small suggestion bcoz situation is not small… It’s a problem of 8 years and those feelings
But I want to talk to you and tell you how it will be
Just get out of that relationship it’s toxic for you I did the same mistake I stopped talking to my male frends and I left everyone for him and he leaved me alone after 5 years of relationship and now I’m all alone suffering alone with my emotions and thoughts and you are doing the same mistake I did never leave anyone in your life for being with a girl or a boy at the end of the day you remain alone and that hurts you the most
Abhijeet A.K @akabhi
Very True I know it’s difficult but have to do it for yourself and your loved ones like family or ur soul
Well said… Did the same mistake and now I’m all alone😅
I have seen it… girl do not let anyone tell you what’s right or what’s wrong… use your brain…
i can understand he is angry… but do not think that his making out with other girls is something related to you… he wants it that’s why he is doing it…
It’s better to leave him and move on… it’s toxic and you won’t be able to handle it for the lifetime…