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Hello, I need help with my decision, Iโ€™ve been helping my older sister for 11 years by letting her pay the rent half off($1000) on my rentals unit. in fact I lower $200 more when she lost her job. she had been paying $800 monthly on a $2000 monthly duplex. Last month she hit $150K jackpot at the casino.
She planed to give her 3 children money and pay off their car loan and properly what is left over will properly lost it all back to the casino within a year or so. She is so addicted to the Casino. Most of the time she would pay me late on rent. She still wanna pay me $800 for the rest of her life to live in my house. should I ask her to pay me $1500 monthly since she have the money and if she broke then I can lower her rent back to $1000. I kind of upset and not fair for me that I been helping her instead I can make extra $12k a year on rent. Now that she has the money she did see I was helping her for 11 years, In her mind she think she just pay rent like any another tenants. Next week I will have a talk with her about it, I know there will be a conflict between us. any suggest from all of you will help me make a correct decision.
Sorry for any typo or grammar.

Thank you.
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Abeer Setthi @pranum

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hi buddy i belive that you should st op lowering her rent otherwise she will take it for granted and just blowup her money in casinos , which i believe is not right.
so yeah talk to her and increas the rent if not full 2k then make it atleast 1500 bucks as you said .

Abeer Setthi @pranum

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one should never involve relations in business

Bees_knees @nichol

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I have helped a friend stay rent-free for several monthsโ€ฆ not once did she bother to assist with any utilitiesโ€ฆ
She had a higher paying job and did little to none to help with house-work/ cooking or inspectionsโ€ฆ
I eventually decided to tell her off so she could start looking for a houseโ€ฆ what was meant to be 1 week lasted 2 months and she had absolutely no decency to even say thank youโ€ฆ
She often narrates her sad story about how she was couch-surfing and was at her lowest in lifeโ€ฆ still made alot of money and saved itโ€ฆ
When she left I decided to ask her to atleast pay electricity and water, splitting between all residentsโ€ฆ she lost all my respect when she asked to show her all invoices and calculationsโ€ฆ for an absolutely small amount and despite the bills increasing since her stayโ€ฆ
Unfortately, after this I will never be helping anyoneโ€ฆ
And i suggest you donโ€™t take it easy either or just tell her that you may have to find another tenant

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