HELLO, i am going through a rough phase, depression is with me. i have been dating for almost 3 years now my boyfriend abuses me a lot😭 he abused me so much that i lost my confidence.
He wants me to meet him everyday, due to lockdown nd all i couldnt meet and my parents are also strict they arent allowing me to go out. Because of this he is taking this as excuse and taunting me very badly, and abusing me. if i answer back he is like " you are at the fault just shut your mouth “. And when i revert back he blocks me from everywhere and being no chance to contact him. i genuinely love him and tried meeting him everyday geniunely tried by fighting with my parents and all. Now he broke up when i argued with him and he said “bahut zubaan chalti teri”. he said if i want him back " in public mujhe uske pair pakadke sorry bolna hai😭”. this just shook me nd broke me completely i geniunely tried everything for him and he just walk off😭. earlier he slapped me also…i am severe pain and severe loss of my own self. what should i do?
thank you so much i will try my best to get out of this
Heyyy im so glad that you shared your story. I guess you already know the answer what you have to do but you are just confused how can you do that… Its okay. You have suffered a lot… really. now dont you think its time to leave? you must have loved him a lot to bear everything for soo long. But its his loss that he could never appreciate you. A man who uses force and mentally manipulates you, is he really worth all your love, patience and efforts?
Maybe try at to look at yourself when he wasnt in your life… you were really happy, not in the need of a man, you were confident, smiled a lot, were always cheerful. what has he done to you. Loves supposed to help you grow, become a better version but why have you become like this? Honey, you dont deserve any of this. Please for just your sake, take efforts for yourself. You are enough♥️
Just move on girl, he is not worth you. No one has the right to abuse you in any way and form, and even thinking of humiliating you in public ,that is just pathetic.
Hey! I am sorry that you are going through this. I know it may be tough, but you will get through it. Do not let anyone define your worth. I know that may be easier said then done, but you did not deserve any of that. I am sorry to say this, but he did not truly care for you if he did those things. It may be hard to hear, but it’s true. It is time to begin the journey to focus on yourself. It’s going to be hard, but remember that you are worth so much more than how that man treated you. You deserve the world, and one day you will find someone who will give it to you. It’s not him though, so you need to move on.
