Hello,
I am a man, 27, and i didnāt have sex nor have a girlfriend since many years ago . My first time having sex is when i was like 19y.o , and used a condom and didnāt really felt āsatisfactionā while penetrating my partner so i assumed it was because i put a condom.
My second time was when i was like 21 , and put a condom and didnāt have satisfaction, but she took care of my penis with her mouth and i had an orgasm.
That was the last time i had sex. And now, i am 27, i started dating a girl. We had āsexā today
, without condom, and i kind of didnāt know how to penetrate .
I āput it insideā her but i had a hard time to put it and started to stress and my penis became soft. so i started to think itās maybe not the Condom problem but mine.
What i am afraid is , i have a sexual problem? or i just donāt know how to do it.
When i masturbate , i can stay hard, and ejaculate, have orgasm without any problems so i assume itās not a sexual disfunctionment (but i really donāt know tbh) .
What can i do about it :( ? I really want to enjoy having sex.
PS: This is maybe a factor of problem so i need to mention it: Since i didnāt have a girfriend for a very long time, i masturbate alot, watch porn alot.
Thank you very much
maybe because of nervousness as you were having it after a long time
And i must add:we did it in a very ātoughā situation. There was some people in the house and we were afraid that people will interrupt our good time. Like,A cat knocked on the door and we thought it was someone.
haha! all i can suggest! try having at some safe place next time! so that you can take that feel
You should focus on the cat in the room not the one knocking on the door š jokes apart, you can reduce the screen time of porn and start meditating and also improve your sleep cycle, all will be good.
Try using viagra
Nop
Tbh bro itās because you become nervous thatās why itās become soft and you loss your erection, I do take stress a lot bro and it also effects my erection and canāt stay focus on my sex, give yourself another try thatās all I can say
Hey man, i know what youāre going through. I can help you if youāre comfortable with it. Letās connect?
