Hello Guys
New to this platform i met someone during covid,she came into my life as a storm
We became good friends and then fwb , and eventually i fell for her. 
Now i am so use to her that i cant imagine things without her and my life revolves around her.She is my lucky charm all good things happen to me since she is been a part of my life
She doesn’t feel the same , sometimes she is herself the way she has always been. But sometimes i feel like I there is no importance
 of mine in her life.
The other thing she knows that i wont leave her as a friend till end
This takes a lot of toll on my mental health

I think i have moved on almost 80%, but just her presence in my life gives  me calmness.
I dont know  how to dealdeal with this situation.


Adulting

I have a friend who is having a unfair life struggles, and having financially problems, How can I help her??? Should I run some fundraising or business or whatever I need to help her. Give me some advice 😥

3am Thoughts

I need opinion of others about this....

I have a good friend...we used to talk all night....even during sleeping we connect via call so that we don't feel alone.....she became so close to me...that I had started feeling for her but never said cause...i was afraid our friendship might ended or or might not remain that craziness...anyway
For last year we haven't talk properly even for 10 min. Or meet for once....she had join college to pursue MBA....after that all this starting happening.
She finally had friends around her someone who can help her in difficult time ( as i lived in different states so I was not available all time ). 
I know she is happy and I want her be happy it just...in past it's day or night we always connected..but now it's just me only....
Sometimes I feel like maybe she doens't need me anymore.....i feel like my work here is done.....now go which makes sad.


Lonely

I actually am at the mid of the struggle rn like i am not able to focus on my studies and i am just zoning out everytime.......this actually makes me feel weak cuz i cant control myself and my own mind and the thing i am overthinking about is my bestfriend. Yeah she is pretty busy these days and she jas a bad habit that she self isolates herself everytime things goes real bad ik that i shouldnt text her so sje can find peace but....she has helped me a lot and now i cant stop myself its hard and even tho i text her she just seenzones it which makes my mental health even worse. I am making the worst case scenarios about why she isnt texting and that actually is how my life is going on rn :')

Education

Hey y'all, I have a friend who wishes to get out of drinking/smoking... i really want to help that friend... what do you think would help that friend?
It would be of great help, thank you

Other

I have this friend of 2 years. I am kind of close to her, she does feel comfortable. She's nice to me. She has stuck around with me. But recently everything she does has started to make me feel annoyed. Maybe this is normal. But omg everytime she talks she talks something stupid or as if she's testing me what I'm going to reply. Tbh I'm starting to gate her. But she has no other friends from college, and she has this idea that we're best friends. Maybe i like her too sometimes. But she's not like the people that i want around. I don't want to abandon her neither do i want to be friends with her. At least for now. Ig I'm worried about missing her later and having regret for abandoning her. But I'm so done. Idk what to do. 

This sounds really stupid but is it normal to suddenly hate your best friend for years?

I'm starting to hate her more and more each day because since elementary school grade 5, I liked a guy, he was talking to me and she actually went in-between us and started talking to me about something else. That's where I started hated her until now (grade 9 or what you would call secondary 3). I think she's kind of too overprotective, she would always break the conversations I have with other classmates and she keeps on following me everywhere I go and it's literally very irritating to me. Like, I need space from her but she keeps on following me.
Yesterday was when I started to hate her in my mind. She got almost the same spectacles, tied her hair exactly how I would tie and she wore the exact same mask as me. Istg she knows that someone copying anything about me pisses me off and she still did it anyways.
I hated it whenever someone calls me but it was my best friend, like wtf we look so different
Then today she still wore the same exact things and she 'secretly' follow me everywhere I go to monitor what I do and how I do things and she would do the same things (I saw her cause she was being so obv). I personally think this is getting ridiculous.  I think she's just trying to gain the same amount of attention I normally get and its purely disgusting to me.
The small little gestures and small dances she would do to get attention from people is literally cringey. She would LITERALLY act cute to people and it would trigger my fight or flight mode, and would make me wanna hate her even more.











Friends

I have a friend, (I consider her as my closest friend, but i don't think she consider me as her close friend)

So she and i are in different highschool, we both go to public highschool that's not good at all. Then we have something in common, that we want to move to different highschool, but we have a lot of challenges like money and it's hard to find other school, until our sophomore year.

 But suddenly yesterday she told me that she will move to other school out of our city. And that's break my heart, i feel like she left me. And she doesn't tell me her prosess of moving and stuff. 
I really upset to her, she's like betraying me.

Every month in the weekend she and i will hangout and stuff, but in the last weekend she already promised that we will hangout, but she keep procrastinating, so we dont go hangout.

I don't know what to do, should i do the same, Move to other school? I have started to adapt in my current school, but still, im not belong to there. 


So, I met this girl online and she is a victim of sexual abuse from a family member and sometimes when she sees the picture of her abuser or sometimes she gets these thoughts, she starts panicking and stuff.
How do you help someone like that when they panic or get stressed?

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