Hello everyone this is Kate Madison from Tokyo,Japan.I’m 11 years old and I’m here to share my feelings…I’m having very struggling childhood when I was of 9 my parents got a divorce and as per court decision I and my younger one had to live with mom but we’re aren’t happy with this from when my mom got her new partner she tries to ignore us and so do her new partner she never gave us anything we wanted all things we wanted are given from dad and he gave the school fees and gifts in any celebration and the thing she never gave us was love and mental support.She probably doesn’t cares what we are facing I can accept those stress but what about my sister (6 years)she’s small enough to understand those problems my mom and her partner makes us uncomfortable often.She never helps us with studies she and her partner is often drunk which feels too horrible 😥…Even though I try let mom understand what we feel but she doesn’t cares about it…She also threats us that if we tell daddy or any other she will beat us which makes me cry and looking me my sister cries too…Daddy doesn’t knows this if he would then he may surely help us but I’m scared of telling daddy if she beats us but I’m telling here just for relief she isn’t at home.My father is happy with a kind lady(doctor). You all may say that why I don’t tell them now but she checks our phone call history sometimes I feel like why I was born… I don’t know what to do know if I was alone child if my sister wasn’t then I may tell dad without caring about mom but now I’m scared if she beats sister too?What should I do…😥
Hey hey you don’t be silent about this…I know it must be so hard because I too have a younger sis so I can understand your worry here so that’s why i am saying don’t be silent …you ought to inform all this because what’s happening to you and your sister should not be happening especially by your own mother that’s why not infront of her tho because she may try to harm you or your younger sis but when she and her partner is not at home keep your dad’s number with you and a phone so that the moment she is out you can call him and tell him what’s happening and tell him to come get you and your sister because you are in danger…don’t do what I am saying in a hate because while you are calling your dad and your mom enters things will get worse so make a plan so that your mom doesn’t doubt on you…you are worried about your sis that your mom may beat her up and that worry is legit but don’t let that fear and worry make you silent with what’s happening to you and your sis…your mother has already got the thought of beating you guys and who can guarantee even if you guys just silently suffer one day she may not beat you up so before anything like this happens just prevent it before happening…you are a strong girl and it shows cuz at such a young age you have been suffering along with taking care of your sis just be strong like this
@subashi - Very courageous of you to reach out via this platform. It’s not my place to give unsolicited advise as you are still a minor by law. Other than your mom, does your dad live in the same city as your mom?
Do you have any other relatives that are nearby to you?
Simran @st1199
Hello!
You did right coming here and share your emotions with us.
At such a young age you understand the pain and care so much for your sister and want to protect her at all cost. People with such kind intentions always are helped by God when we aren’t able to get out or have a solution to it.
Since your mother said she will beat you and because of that you aren’t telling your dad, just tell him when she is not around on-call and delete the call so that she can’t see it. Tell him how she threatened you so what he does next should be safe and something which makes you get out of the house. The matters could then be taken to another level when you both (you and your sister) tell what she does to you both. YOU ARE BRAVE AND COURAGEOUS. If you will not tell him, you and your sister would have to see it every day, and it’s not good for either of you.
Just lookout for the right time and do it. Ask your sister not to speak anything in front of her so that she doesn’t come to know about it.
We are here for you and support you. Please take care of yourself and your little sister. 💜
