Hello, everyone. So I’m in a platonic relationship with my bestfriend. We have fun and all that sorts. But one day she seemed quiet and just asked her if I did something wrong. She basically told me she feels bad that sometimes she can not return the feelings that I give her. But I’ve told her it shouldn’t be something to really worry about. And said if she needed some time to herself. And she replied that yeah. Until she finishes up assignments for finals and she’ll be in a mood to chat.
I am wondering. Am I developing feelings for her when I feel bored and honestly kinda feeling empty? We’re both good. She’s busy I understand she needs time but it feels bleh without having some hang out time with her. I know I can just wait it out for her to have more free time, no rush. No need to suffocate her by trying to hang. What can I do? To help me understand and not be the one guy to ruin a great friendship? Cause I’m not the greatest in social interaction so I may be making things weird on my end.
i would say if you have feelings for her dont confess to her right now. if she give you hints that she is interested in you the same way you are then go ahead. but from my experience dont confess. i ruined my most beautiful friendship by telling the guy that i like him. But this is just me talking from my experience.
