He says he loves me and we’re in a talking stage rn but why is he not asking me for a date. I’ve asked him twice cause i don’t believe in guys should ask first and all and he kinda said no in an indirect way. Idk what is happening. We’ve only met once 3 years before as friends.
You guys met online?
No. We’ve been friends since 10th grade and we’ve video called and all and 12th grade again talking stage was there he proposed me via text didn’t felt like it was serious so I said no and then we started talking again and it’s 8 months now and I love him so much and he says so too then why not take things further I’m not asking for a relationship just for dates rn so that we can meet and get to know and then decide
You sure he likes you too?
He said he loves me and he talks around w his friends like I’m his gf cause we’ve mutual friends so some people asked me if we’re dating. He says sorry everytime even if unintentionally he hurts me and is caring booking my hospital appointments and forcing me to go on time and he drunk calls me a lot. Idk tbh. I feel like he does like me but he doesn’t want a relationship and is confused.
Did he ever get in to relationship before you started talking?
He was in a relationship w his ex for some days. But we started talking 3-4 months after that.
You should ask him that did he patch up again,! Then you got to know ! Or else he would date some one else , i guess!
He’s single and his ex is out of the pic. This girl was like 5 year older than him and he got the most serious for her. If he wanted to date me he would’ve by now. I think I will move on now.
Before getting in any conclusion just go and ask him , may be he could be in any miserable situation that won’t make him decided!
Yes I will have a talk w him before leaving and see like what’s the situation and all
Good, else you want any help on that to think on , you can connect to me if you want! All the best
Thank you so much I really appreciate it and even if you need help regarding anything you can connect w me too💙✨
Try to talk with him openly. If he’s interested in you and surely and purely love you he’ll understand and clear your misunderstandings. May be he is not mentally prepare for anything rn. In a relationship both of the sides should understand each other equally. You should go first to talk about without any hesitation.
Yes I will try this uk. If it doesn’t work out I’ll move on in peace. Even I want clarity. Thanks.
Efforts do speak a lot it’s hard to give up on someone you put so much energy to, since 3-4 months I don’t even text hun first he always does that cause I wanted to atleast meet and I wasn’t even asking for a relationship. Meeting, calling and texting someone you like is like the bare minimum and if I or anyone has been made to feel like we’re asking a lot. It’s not good. I’ll have a last talk and I’ll move on.
Sure you do it. I hope u get peace. I know how it feels for liking someone with your whole heart and in return you get nothing but heart break. I already went through this but I really want that u never go through this type of relationship when one of u isn’t even sure about and another one just suffer mentally and physically. I wish u for you best!!
I’m sorry that this happened to you. I hope you’re doing good now. And thank you so much💛🌼 I wish you the best too✨
Maybe some family issues? Maybe strict parents? Or some type of insecurity regarding his body
His family is modern and chill type and he knows he looks good so that’s not a problem.
Ask him if he wants to take you on adate or not
Don’t just stay in a relationship like this after some years you’ll just get too attached and he won’t even care
I’ve actually asked him for dates but he never said yes or no and kinda dodged those questions. I’m not staying in this, I’ve started distancing myself since 2-3 months now I’ll have a last talk and if it still ends up going no where. I’ll leave for good.
