he is not taking any move 😫 how long should I wait. Like cmon dude. We still talk but it’s super dry I know we both want this to work. But it’s really slow jeez

Harsh truth! He’s not really into this I guess.

Relationships

This is my first relationship and his 4th or 5th I'm not sure , at the beginning we were genuinely so in love, we would be constantly talking to each other , laughing, playing , we just enjoyed spending time together be it through call or text or hang out at his place , due to his work he had to move to another state , we were able to manage long distance for like a year and a half, however recently things have gotten really bad , we constantly fight , we hardly talk to each other , we are unable to communicate, I tried breaking up with him several times but he just wins me over , due to this constant arguments and fights I am always in a bad mood , I really don't know if i should leave him based on his present behaviour or stay thinking of the past good times 


Boyfriend

This guy I'm dating currently I've dated like 5-6 times in the past and it has almost always ended in an ugly manner but I thought this time will be different because why not but turns out it's not as different. He hasn't figured himself out and isn't happy w life and I don't know if he will be able to achieve either of those while being in a relationship. I love him but I'm extremely scared about our future mostly because I've started thinking we don't have any. Maybe it's the past times we've dated that still haunts me but idk. He says dumb shit sometimes and it makes me upset but he doesn't even care anymore, like he's given up. I'm really scared about us but idk how to bring up the topic because he already has way too many issues to be worried about a new one. I'm so scared. 

I met a guy on a matrimonial website. We have been together for few months now. He is exactly the kind of person I wanted in my life. But his family is not as financially stable as my family is, which is an issue for my parents. I just don’t know what to do.

Marriage

I got an intrest on matrimonial site.. i shared my parents number to him and asked him to talk further to my parents.. but he asked my parents that he want to talk with me.. we do not that kind of culture.. usually in our side girl and boy talk only after they got engaged.. so my parents denied.. but should i talk with him?

Confusion

Umm so I am in a long distance relationship with my bf. And I don't want to be in any serious relationship now cuz I have seen and also getting hurt every day. The main problem is that I don't trust him. I don't want to get hurt anymore.
I want to be in just casual now. I love him but it's better if I will be selfish now. I m getting hurt being with him and will also get hurt without him. One of the guy was ready to do some casual stuff with me being in a relationship. But I didn't agree cuz I m in a relationship but now I feel like I should do it. I will breakup with him by listening few of your opinions on this. 

My bf is a nice guy tho but he just don't care about my existence in his life :) 

3am Thoughts

Have been chatting with a man for about a week we both were all flirty and good but today he is behaving so distant like just liking my messages and giving me one word answer and ignoring some of my msges etc etc it feels weird ....what should I do next ? 

Why do i still feel this way? why do i still love him? why do i still care about him? I hate him. He lied to me. He told me he loved me, he cared about me. But he's saying the same thing to my friend. I feel angry with him. He lied to me. I feel rejected and hurt but i still love him. It's to the point this dude can stab me and i'd apologize for getting blood on him. He knows about my trauma. This dude is abusive, very. But I don't care. I can't breathe without him. There's an empty feeling and it can't be filled without him. He broke me. he ruined me. he killed me. But if he were to text me right now i'd take him back in a heart beat because i love him. And i hate how hard it is without him and the fact i had to give him up. I keep hoping and praying he'll text me and want me back. Was he abusive and did he hurt me? yes. was it a toxic friendship? absolutely. But do i think we were meant for each other? Absolutely i do. And I miss him 

Friends

I had my breakup around 2 weeks ago and just before during my exams i don't regret about that i didn't did my exams well but regret that i loved the person sm rather than doing any preparation for exams i went to meet him so that everything will sort and we will be together again but inspite of that nothing happened like that...i was so broked and was crying everyday and i am still just want to be out of this idk what should I do that i won't remember him... everything is so messed up..

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