He is leaving but he can’t stop texting me !!

I have been sick and taking care of myself didn’t get time to take more care of him

Love

i miss my ex

Breakup

BBB
It's been a year now.. and I still want my ex back


Why does he flirt with me and mentions his crush the next moment? 

3am Thoughts

I am going through a divorce process I married (court) with my bf last year for visa. During lockdown we stayed with our family. He started to become very controlling and aggressive. After a extreme fight I was not able to handle anymore so I stopped talking to him. Now he is in different country and I am still at my parents house. I miss him and cry alot and always doubt on my decision it gives me anxiety and sadness all day. I feel like Stuck can't concentrate on anything. Think about him alot and always think what would have happened If I would have decided to stay with him. I stalk him sometimes ..he looks fine and he moved on. But I am not fine..I am finding it very hard to move on. 

After being alone my whole life I found my first true friend that eventually became my boyfriend. He could literally read my eyes. He was the only person that had my back in this new city. My friend, my boyfriend, my family he played each role for me. He could never even think of hurting me. He did so much for me that I could barely do for him. He never told me No for anything, he was the person who used to take care of my little little things and remember each minute detail of what I told him. We started dating in August 2021 he literally was the perfect person I ever had and most importantly I could trust despite having serious trust issues and high emotional instability. He calmly handled my every mood. It is always said that trust the actions not the words so I did trusted the actions and thought I found my man.

But the things are changing on his part he says he has problems in his life so he is unable to give his 100%. But the fact is Even I suffer from my problems and tried not to mention them so I don't put my stress on him. One day I needed him in my lows I needed him just to be with me and he showed up for a certain time in which he ate his food without bothering that his girlfriend hasn't eaten since morning and he went back . When I told him that I needed him at that time and I already told him that he has to be with me I am feeling very low. When I confronted him he said that I should understand his problem and it's my fault . But I don't find him like this in front of others. He is the same with them that he used to be before. He said that he can't take care of me 24×7. And that I could leave him if I want. He come to meet me and then boasts like he has did such a great thing by meeting me. But I think he should meet me because he wanted me too.He is changed now and he doesn't accept this.  I don't know what to do? I explain him my feelings so he could know how much all this hurts me . He bothers for a second next time he is doing the same. He clearly says that he can't handle my moods my attention seeking attitude and can't give all this he can't be the way he earlier was and if I want to leave him for this then I should.

 



There's this guy I love VERY MUCH. In the past, he has hurt me a lot but he's a changed man now. I feel myself getting attached again but this time, I'm scared. But at the same time, I also dont wanna resist this feeling. I dont know what to do. I cant think about anything but him which is affecting my work, I used to win every case I fought but I just cant concentrate now. I also know that this isnt going to work in the long run for sure. But I dont know what to do. I really need advice :(

If anyone knows how get over someone you've never actually dated, please let me know. I loved this guy for a year and a half. We still talk every single day because we are still best friends. 😔

my boyfriend  doesn't pay attention to me even when he is online... When I text him just a hi first , he does check in on me but I hate texting first, and I also hate being left without a response....I'm wondering if I should break up with him because he values his books and music more importantly  than I do. I really like him a lot but i am afraid of breaking up with him...We are currently in a distant relationship, but I haven't heard from him in about 2 weeks, despite the fact that he continues to post.

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