he always starts doubting our future together after some fight...and he keeps on ignoring me for days....and i am always the one to go and resolve the fight...but i don't want to this time...but i am never able to control , what to do

I feel the exact opposite like he doesn't care if i stay or not

I just don't know , i knw that i started the fight nd maybe i was wrong but him doubting our future together makes me feel bad

Well you can try taking some break from him and show yourself some care pamper yourself properly, exercise do something you love . 

Yeahh u r right but how to control myself i always msg him after fight while he controls himself

Yeahh but he doesn't listen he is a bad listener

Pamper yourself try something new make friends go out have some fun time 

But atleast u can sometimes see different aspects of the issue 

I am too afraid to brkup it's my first relationship 

Me too tbh I am going through a similar situation. 

If it's meant to be it'll be don't worry 

I wish I could make myself understand this

Hey u just wait for him 
Have patience 
Keep in talking with hin

Don't lose your self respect in the process,

Show him how to resolve problems
Give him 3 chances to resolve things in his own
If he can do it move forward with him otherwise move forward

3am Thoughts

how can I make someone text me after we both stopped talking for a reason!
- (he messed up) and I think he's just ashamed to come talk to me but deep down he wants to, I want him to overcome that fear and text me.
SHOULD I MANIFEST IT and how

Confusion

i thought we would be okay and happy alk the time but throughout the months i am really not feelings the connection i felt w him its just so overwhelming. love isnt supposed to be this overwhelming and painful. whenever i think abt him i feel a sudden pain in my heart and i dont feel happy. its not like he doesnt love me. its just he stopped trusting me w his issues and i thiink he started to build a walla b/w us. we were so happy and i just want to be happy again with him. i may not be understandin him well or maybe i just dont wanna understand from his point of view. i dont know whats wrong w me. ill try to understand him more. kaybe we need break and time to improve individually and then work on the relationship 









 understanding him well 

Relationships

How do I stop loving someone or stop missing someone...  I know he will never understand me no matter how much I try.. he stopped loving me.. because I couldn't change my personality and my entire self as per his choice.. a few years back, when we cam in relationship.. he wanted to change my dressing style, and everything... even my way of walking.. I was so madly in love that I agreed to all of it, but with time I realized that I was not happy, although I still loved him.
I know that even after so much efforts to be his favorite, he stopped loving me one day.. I just don't know how to put my thoughts into words. I just want to stop loving him.. and start loving myself now. live my life on my own terms.. I just need to figure out the HOW maybe

Love

I am not able to move on at all please help me I miss him a lot idk what to do its been four months I just keep crying whenever I am alone I can't sleep I don't eat I am not the person I used to be anymore 

Hi, a warm welcome to everyone. Well basically I am an introvert. I hesitate to share my feelings with anyone openly this platform gave me a best opportunity, thanking all you people for hearing me. Now I am standing in a dilemma, I love my parents and my family a lot, I respect them a very much, but what happened is, sometimes in the past whenever they see a relationship failure due to arrange marriage among our relatives, they were always suggesting me to find love of my life on my own after better understanding him, which is way better than deceived from these types of arrange marriages. Still I was not waiting to find my love just because they said. But one fine day someone came into my life with whom I could feel that vibe, I attracted to his character more than his looks and status, unknowingly I fell for him and he also liked me a lot, we understood each other greatly, one day he proposed me and since I was waiting for the day I agreed to him keeping in mind that my parents would never deny my decisions. But after few months accidentally my parents came to know about my relationship and now they’re acting like “this all should not be done” and also they’re not agreeing my relationship with him just because of some clan reason and his status, and they all acting like I have ruined their prestige and they’re very hurt. But here the problem is I am regretting for hurting them to that much, meanwhile me and my boyfriend love each other so much that we can’t even think our lives seperately without being in each other’s life. We have dreamt big things together and passioned future, But I am in such a dilemma that I give both of them an equal value that I couldn’t leave any of them, I could give another try convincing my parents at any cost but they’re very hurt already and they are hoping me to breakup with him. But I can’t make them understand more without hurting them, they’re not at all understanding my feelings and meanwhile my boyfriend says that he won’t live without me and won’t leave me at any cost, If it has to happen then he told he would give up his life but never leave me. He also tried his best assuring of better status by working hard at any cost to my parents but they’re are not agreeing him no matter what assurance we give. I have created such a mess in my life I can’t make understand either of them. Could anyone please help me out, What shall I do? I am suffering lot of mental depression and can't concentrate on my career. Please somebody help me out.

I feel bery sad. I miss my ex.
Anybody up for some talk?? 

I can't believe its been more than 6 months and I still check on him daily.
We haven't exchanged a single word since January, but I can't seem to be able to let go.
I was the one to walk away first, as he always predicted, but he tore my world apart. I cried, and screamed, and self harmed, and missed him like crazy, and then cried some more. But I didn't give in, and I didn't reach out, and I kept my word and my dignity. "I don't stay where I'm not valued". So I walked away and for him, it was just as simple. I didn't let him see my pain behind my decision. 
But what has that been for? I still miss him, I still want to reach out, I still wonder what is he up to. I still remember his daily schedule. I still wonder at all times if he ever thinks of me.
He always said he doesn't miss people. That he was never going to leave, but if I ever left, he would be sad, yet he wouldn't miss me. I thought it would make it easier. It didnt.  
And even after all this... he reached out first. If a like on Instagram could be called "reaching out".
And it's like being back to day 1.

Depression

Should I be friends with my ex? Or is this me trying me to convince myself to get into the toxic relationship again 

Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts