Have you ever been in a relationship where things are going really well… n some third person (ex) wants you back… what you do. I want to confess I invaded his privacy which is not good… but didnt had any other option… now I’m upset over this but I’m more upset on the conversation he had with his ex. It’s a tough situation… now things are turning upside down. At a moment I felt we are good… but now feels like what ever he said was unreal. Fake.
I feel like texting her ex n asking her to leave us alone. But I also think he should be the one getting closure. In conversation at one point he is saying he wants to give time to me n our relationship. But at other point he is upset on breaking things off with her… I trust him. N I love him alot. Why is this so difficult??
Sanket @sanket
Now since you know his ex wants him back, you somehow need to bring up this topic and clarify all the things. For both of you as an individual, this would be a bad experience
I’m trying to explain him… we get in a better position after discussion but land up again at square 1. He cares about her ex as a friend. And I dont know what to do. I have told him about the fb thing… idk what he wants. He is clear wants to take things ahead with me only. But doesnt want to leave his ex alone 😑
Sanket @sanket
It is really tough to forget the ex because usually, a person has lots of memories associated with them, I would recommend demanding more of his time, in a decent & constructive way. In this way, he might not be able to give his ex time, but keep in mind his more attention may also make you want him less, just an opinion, you can think of more approaches
