Has anyone ever felt confused about dating? Like you want to date but you don’t have the energy to like invest in a person + ofc when you’ve had bad experiences with relationships you don’t wanna get hurt ?
All the time every time someone tries to get closer to me I always bail
Exactly ! I think somewhere we want to experience stuff but at the same time, the thought of getting hurt/disappointed by them is horrifying
I do. Couldn’t move forward from my ex girl been 8 years still battling. Decided to flirt around as scared of serious commitment, somehow it gonna end me in pain. Same goes to my best friend who tried to move forward from her toxic ex. We decided to flirt with each other and promised nothing more than flirting till one day we caught both of us falling for each other…
My ex cheated on me with multiple people, I was devastated when I got to know, couldn’t move on, doubted my own worth, while they were out there living their best lives. At one point I said, fuck this! This person keeps manipulating me, didn’t talk ever since, I still think about dropping a text sometimes but I feel it’s best if I don’t . It’s taken me so long to finally have a stable life, won’t allow someone to just walk in and just ruin the progress
Dont make people to take you for granted. For a sec you will feel they are your world, your everything but things will split in a sec. It’s not easy for someone to say this, if u did i can understand how much u went through.
I’ve never been in a relationship and I still have this feeling
I think love is not a bad thing, it can be truly beautiful, but I’ve come to realise that you have to encounter wrong people first before you actually find someone of your compatibility. The heartbreak process itself makes you know so much about yourself. But if you feel you’re avoiding giving people a chance, I think you should def try opening up (at least to your close friends) . I didn’t use to be vulnerable around anyone, then my relationship fell apart and everyone helped me a lot
Idk I’ve had bad experience with guys even before dating one so I’m like I don’t want to settle for less. So I just think twice before investing anything
And that’s great ! I’m proud of you! Always know your worth, never settle for less yet, be open and welcoming to a possibility… that’s literally how I roll now
Yess definitely. I’ll try doing that!
You think you can live your life alone.
I think all relationships don’t have to be romantic, if you have a small but loyal and loving circle(family+friends) I think that’s more than enough, plus you can always wait for the right person to tag along
