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Guys need some help! Or suggestions
There is a woman that connects with me very well and we have a very good friendship. She is super hot and respectful towards me and I kind of loved that. We do have some great chats. Eventually she isalready married and have a Son. His husband and I have a very good relationship. But I am deeply attached to her. But the problem is she is attached to me but she doesnā€™t have love feelings for me. She likes her husband and family. I trie to move on. But the problem wmis whenever I see her well dressed or talking with me I just become blindly in love. What should I do? I am so in love with her.

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Arpita Sur @arpitaaa05

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Mannnn what on earth and why

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Anonymous
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Sorry didnā€™t get you??

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Anonymous
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She just said : leave her alone buddy ! You are impacting 4 lives and 2 families to be exact ,plus your mental health too .
This kind of stuff will ruin your life and may be her married life too !

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Anonymous
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By the way dude. I am not ruining anybody life to be clear. She doesnā€™t even have a slightest of a hint that I like her. I just wanna express that I like her so much and I am not getting over it. I am not ruining any family to be sure.

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If you think that way , fine .
Express your wish to her once and you would know then , how impactful it is for both of you .
All the best :)

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Anonymous
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Tbh just let her be man!
If you really wanna see her happy then let her live her lifeā€¦ Youā€™re a good friend and yet !
Find someone you can call you ownā€¦she has a kid and loves her husband and yetā€¦ Let them be happy my friend!
Your destined partner will come soon!

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Anonymous
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Yeah you are right. You know many people are gonna hate me in this situation despite the fact she is married. But I really do like her and You know its difficult to keep your feelings back all the time

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Anonymous
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I donā€™t hate you for loving someone bro but the fact is just let them beā€¦ Youā€™ve got a great life ahead and Iā€™m sure youā€™ll love your partner and sheā€™ll be very lucky to have you so just let your female friend beā€¦ Ik itā€™s not easy but sometimes youā€™ve to give upā€¦ not for them but for your own good buddy! I kno how it feelsā€¦do not ask me whyā€¦ But I do kno it sucks but move on broā€¦ For your own goodā€¦ For her goodā€¦ Iā€™m sure you understand thatā€¦ Itā€™s okay to feel that wayā€¦ no hate to that! I hope youā€™ll understand what I mean šŸ˜Š

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Anonymous
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Yeah buddy! Thanks for understanding that. Surely I am not gonna let her know that I have feelings for her. She will live her life with his family.

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Anonymous
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And you should live a happy life too! Do not forget that!

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Mann @mann1317

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Just grow up bro thats the only solution

@heybeach
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You guys should just stay away from eachother. This sort of Scenario recks a childā€™s mental health.

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