Guys help me with this...I am dating this guy from a month and like we have mutual friends.  We are mostly on conference calls and he never calls me personally (like very very less) I have told thus thing to him so many times. Today I asked him to call me personally...he didn't reply...rn he is talking to his friends on call and we haven't talked whole day. Should I take all this?

You aren't his priority that's clear, why would you want to waste time and energy on him ??

Its not always that.. Everything we feel about a person.. that person should feel the same. It depends. Its alright you just liked him. Not a wrongful thing but make sure you take care of yourself as well. Dont get involved too much.

Stop reaching out to this person. If they really like you and want to communicate with you they will. Otherwise he's not worth your time.

Maybe he doesn't feel the same...that's why he doesn't feel like answering ur text

He don’t feel the same way like you do 

I’m so mad at him because he’s ruining his life. He chronically self sabotages and pushes everything good away, including me. He remains in a job that makes him miserable (having panic attacks, barely can eat, etc.) and he stays living a lifestyle that he hates. He thinks he’s incapable of so many things, when in reality he’s capable. I wish he would get help. Our relationship didn’t have to end. 

Im so worried things are going to get so bad to the point where he can’t handle it anymore. Why does he choose to live in misery, when he could have the world? 

Breakup

Why I suddenly feel like my long distance bf is talking with someone else. Once some.days back I told him like this and he got very hurt and said he tells me everything and still I dont trust. Then, some dahs passed good. But now again why I get strong feeling again. Whenever I call, his call is busy, he does not do long conversations now remain busy in work says, his loving msgs and all seems not genuine from heart. 

Boyfriend

I m stuck I m in relationship more than 3 years nd sometimes I feel like I  am really love with him sometimes I don't want to be in relationship sometimes it's good to be with him sometimes horrible I just can't figure out but I can't stay away from him I can't stop care about him I can't stay angry with him I always things let go just bcz he feel oky but sometimes idk what's wrong with me

Anxiety

So me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for over 3 years now. Practically a long distance (thanks covid and colleges in different cities). Finally we’re getting a chance to be together. My job will be in Bangalore. He got a choice between Bombay and Bangalore and he chose Bangalore. I was given to choose between two parts of Bangalore, I chose the one far away from him because that’s more happening and I am moving out for the first time so I needed to choose that. I would feel alone and I couldn’t and don’t want to rely on him for my mental sanity. Like an understanding person he is, he did support me. But he’s very unhappy and feels very betrayed and like a fool now. I don’t know what to do or how to comfort him. I chose something important for me instead of us. 


Long Distance Relationship

i keep saying that i am fine 
but deep down i know that i am not fine cause he doesn't make time for me to text 
also he doesn't respond me while i am flirting he just reply no u cann't do that
i dont know what to do 

My last relation was a total disaster, mentally emotionally and physically still out of emotions I tried fixing it time and again but somehow I had to stop after dragging it for about2 3 yrs and after that only way I could move on was heavily depending on alcohol and smoking. Ironically when I was finally getting over and focusing on work he again tried coming back to me, he keptbon coming back after every 3 6 months for another 2 years. After all these I've some permanent bruises and marks on my body out of self harming tendency and severe tryst issues. There is this guy who really like me and inf act over the time I've also start to develop feelings for him but out of last experience I'm just not able to get in relationships and develop trust. My parents also like him lots of mutual friends say that we have the spark and connect really well but I'm just afraid to be able to get cheated and be vulnerable all over again.

Vent: I found texts on my bf's phone with another woman. It broke my heart 💔
It's been about a month since. He said it happened because he thought I was cheating on him. Only thought; I wasn't, and he didn't have anything to say when I asked him what made him suspicious.
He cried a lot, and I decided to give him another chance. 
A week ago he told me that he has to go to a different city for a friend's wedding and that he would be staying with two friends (female). I felt really weird about the situation, especially after what had happened.
While he was there, we had a big fight. When these two friends found him distressed, they asked him what happened and he told them that I have depression and that I don't trust him. He told them that I was insecure about him staying with them and now I'm so embarassed that I want the earth to swallow me whole. This is the absolute worst. I cannot believe this is the person I love and was my best friend for a long time. I cannot stop crying.

Mental Health

This is about a person I met online.A complete stranger from a different continent😅.I usually don't speak to guys(I'm an introvert and shy too).Well,online I spoke to few guys for a very short period of time.Maybe few min,an hour or so.But with this man I spoke for days and weeks.I opened up about myself.He also did.We both were not ready for any relationship and stuff.Well,by then I started having feels for him(just a little).I told him also.That was just a confession.But we remained friends.We had a huge fight during our first conversation,followed by 2 or 3 small fights.It was going literally very good when we decided to be friends.i loved it though.When I confessed and were sorting out things,I was lil broken and wanted to go away and not bother him anymore.He persuaded me.So I thought we can be friends..best friends.But he told that he can't be my best friends because if he gets close to me it gives him different kinda thoughts and feelings.He rudely told me that,"I can't be your counselor " so all these goodbye stuffs happened n no. of times by me.But almost all the time I said that I didn't leave..I came back.i wanted to keep all these love and stuffs aside and be friends with him.But now from three days he's saying that he's busy.Sees my texts and tells me that he's busy and will text me later and that later hasn't come yet.Idk why.....
I'm too talkative.i blabber a lot.He doesn't like it though.that's okay. But he listens to me that's enough.
Idk what's going on rn...
Hoping for the best though

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