Guys, aaplog sab decision kese lete ho? like how can you make sure what to go for when saare aspects hi negative hai and apko harr jagah suffer karna hoga? Apne baarein mein sochna chahiye ya sabke baare mein sochna chahiye?
But sirf apne baarein mein sochu and family ke against jau toh khush reh paungi?
Hope @cureplace
There is no direct answer to it, all depends on your priorities in life and situation you are in.
Sometimes you jabe to priortize youself over all and lot many times you have to stay quite or else it will break the relations.
Ujjwal @ujjwals
Create a rough picture of consequences and then compare which is the best.
Purva Nandha @purva_nandha
Well first to me hamesha apne ko aur apne parents ko preference deta hoon , and for decisions I am believer of God, So for times like yours I just chant god’s name or visit temples nearby me and take the decision thinking that everything will occur for my best only in future…
Anyway , if every decision u going to take Is going to affect one already .
Just think of a worst negative situation and be ready to face it.
See, anyway u r going to face , so face it with courage or with fear.
It’s choice u got .
Joy @joyforlife
Bhai simple hai,
if decision is all about you, so it’s better you think about yourself first. Coz jo apne honge wo waise bhi support karenge.
If decision is about others, then you should respect their feelings and needs before throwing your decisions to them. Ultimately khushi matter karti hai.
