Friends,
What is the meaning of friends, and what we will think about frndship.
Usually all the people used to say 
Friend ship means never ending bond and no limitations and expectations .

But coming to the the reality all the people expect something and making frndship, difficult to find a true friend, 

Actually we I'll search for partners does we match each other, but now in friendship we are searching the good friend 😂, finally this is our society.

Friends

Hello Guys
New to this platform i met someone during covid,she came into my life as a storm
We became good friends and then fwb , and eventually i fell for her. 
Now i am so use to her that i cant imagine things without her and my life revolves around her.She is my lucky charm all good things happen to me since she is been a part of my life
She doesn’t feel the same , sometimes she is herself the way she has always been. But sometimes i feel like I there is no importance
 of mine in her life.
The other thing she knows that i wont leave her as a friend till end
This takes a lot of toll on my mental health

I think i have moved on almost 80%, but just her presence in my life gives  me calmness.
I dont know  how to dealdeal with this situation.


Adulting

I have a friend who is having a unfair life struggles, and having financially problems, How can I help her??? Should I run some fundraising or business or whatever I need to help her. Give me some advice 😥

3am Thoughts

I envy her
It's about a person who used to be my best friend in school, but later she started keeping things from me(also lying) so, now we don't share that kind of bond. Instead I envy her. She is doing great in academics (we had same grades in school) bt now she's better and I'm not. She has friends, talks whenever she wants to, while I have trust issues due to her lying and hiding things from me. She has a lenient family atmosphere, so she roams around with her bf and is living life, while I am at home all the time due to lockdown, and feel empty inside. 

So I am in college.....being alone hurts a lot...I have no friends whom I can rely on....I always manage everything on my own but this time it's something that is hurting....One of my classmates is growing super toxic for me. She is the one I spent in the 1st month of my college life, which has given me a lot of trauma....I am not able to connect with anyone in my class because of her... It is so traumatic I am not able to make friends and I developed social anxiety....She is still in my life for the past 6 months, I tried to cut her off from my life many times but still she shows up every time....she comments on the dress I wear....she wants to make sure that everyone in my class gets to know that I am dumb....She wants all the attention and she really makes me feel so bad....I want to handle this matter maturely by talking to her about this but she is so immature that I know how she will handle this....And I don't want to make her against me as well....not by the fact that she got so many people to support her....but I choose not to waste my energy on her....We will be classmates for the next 3 years so that's the reason as well....

College

Hi this is kinda new to me and feels a lil weird to share but i genuinely have no one else to share it w last year was very hard on me i fought and lost my bestfriend of many years and it changed my life completely and i saw that time which people were actually my friends and who were just w me because of her it's been awhile now she's changed but i still see her all the time because it's our last school year so we're friends when i had a fall out w her i got really close to a friend in our friend group who i didn't know how good friends we would be but we had a minor fight and the first person she went to was my ex bff she went and bitched abt me to the friend group and i saw her and she went to a cafe specifically to talk shit abt me w my ex bff and came back w and told me that I'm obnoxious and a few others things and i was genuinely hurt that she has such a bad image abt me but i thought abt it and the next day i told her yes a little of this i agree w u and i will improve as a person because I've already delt w one person leaving me i didn't want another to but now i realised that she's not really there for me and she only became friends w me becuz she pities me and she always makes me feel insignificant when she's w her bff ik I'm probably the problem but i always might be like tough or sm but I genuinely care abt people i just realised that I'm no one's first choice or that anyone would stand up for me i just needed to rant because I'm upset.

Its not friendship when both sides don't give the same effort. Same energy. One can simply be in love with a person as an one-sider but friendship is formed in both way cooperation. I don't know why people tend to forget this very fact 😔
Happy Friendship Day 💓 

I really really need to vent
I have a friend and she just gets on my nerves. But we're part of a bigger group so I can't just stop being friends with her. She has a weird obsession with holding my hand, or putting her arm around my shoulders. I need space. Physically and emotionally. We became friends at the start of the team when lectures were started offline and the rest of the group was formed later so now I somehow am her closest friend in the group. But I don't know how long I can lie and pretend that her behaviour is okay. She honestly can be so rude to people without knowing it, she has no clue about personal space, she took my phone and started reading my messages, inquiring about who was whom. She does this thing where she'll say something totally inconsiderate without batting an eye and when people point it out they'll get an entire argument about, "tHis iS jUsT whO i aM yOu guYs" 
Aaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh😭😭

"In the realm of friendship or intercommunicate bond, is it the shared laughter or the lasting support that truly defines the strength of a friendship?"

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