For the past 17 years of my life, I have been always reminded of how skinny I am.
Whenever thereās any family function, before going there I prepare myself because I know those aunties and uncles are gonna say something about it, as always. Itās funny how they think calling someone skinny is a compliment. ITāS NOT!
Almost every December, my mom makes a new yearās resolution, which is making sure I gain at least 5 kgs over the next year. But guess what since the past 3-4 years, my weight has always been between 45-47kgs. (lol the only thing thatās constant in my life)
No matter how much I try, I just simply canāt gain weight. And at this point, I have accepted it, I have accepted my body, I have accepted that I canāt force my self to eat more, I have accepted that I canāt force my self to just awkwardly smile every time someone calls me skinny, I have accepted that I canāt gain weight through any natural means, I have acceā¦
How many of lives have been ruined because uncles and aunts just by listening to their advices of how to become successful, do this do that. You just say to them āFUCK OFFā and i donāt know what kind of obsession they have to advice others. You are not skinny mate, itās just people who canāt achieve anything in life end up being a barriers.
Not all are like that, there are some who we adore also. The above text para was for people who always want to put their noses in others businesses
Ikr!! Like relatives always tell you the randomest (not an actual word) stuff!! Itās so annoyingā¦
I have the same problemš occasionally my family would bring up how skinny and childish my body still looks. What bothers me even more is how casually and jokingly they say it. āYour chest isnāt even a third of your auntās when she was your ageā. Iāve started being careless of what they say and comeback at them when they say stuff like that, but their āIāll let you be if you want to be flatā hurts even more. itās not smth we can control. I simply canāt gain weight. No matter how much I eat, Iāll get back to my original weight at the end. Iāve become so self-consciousness