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Anonymous

First time here, don’t know if i should vent my anger here or not, but here it goes.
If there are any kids, sorry. Please dont read this.

I am so angry , because i think, its
Easy for boys to have sex with any girl, whther they are attached or not ! They wont care much with whom
They are doing this, at first maybe- but then- they wont !!! Its just us girls, who had sex with one person, dont feel like- being touched by another. But for
Boys, this wont be an issue !
Its more of a hormonal act ,not emotional. They hardly care.
I know, it can go either way, but lets face the fact, boys wont resist ! They wont resist, where a girl who cant have with other guy, would just vomit at this thought only ! Even if they have been with one
Girl, they WONT RESIST WITH OTHER. Then how the hell we girls are suppose to measure the love , onWhat basis ? Because for me, it is an act of love- neither necessity nor anything but LOVE !!
I am just so damn angry at This thing rn !!!
I dont know, what anybody has to say in this, but i am so angry, don’t know y !!
And yes i am sorry, dont want to offend guys , but this is what i am
Feeling rn ! 😣😢

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Anonymous

Hey there 🙂
I completely understand how angry & frustrated you are by the way you described this above.
I agree with you till some extent that yes its easy for male to have sex will multiple partners. That’s what we call polygamy. Since ancient times human is polygamy. But as humans evolved they figured out polygamy is not good for their sexual health, its difficult to maintain families etc.
But if psychological behaviour of male and female is studied…
You will find that
👉 Its easy for male to have multiple partners, as they dont have to deal with reproductive cycle and they obviously are not worried about it. Thus they have less thoughts about have sex with every other girl.
👉 For female its not easy because our mind n psychology is designed that way that we are protective about our own self. We might have to deal with several things if we did casual sex just like mal do…
We are definitely choosy when it comes to selecting a partner.
I agree with your view that this is wrong. But we also have to consider this psychology of both male and female.

Sanket @sanket

Hey, you are completely right here. We males can easily fall against lustful feelings. We are so stupid creatures. Feelings & emotions are the areas where we struggle a lot. It’s the greediness that makes us cheat.
However, if you believe in karma then things will return back. Don’t make any such mistakes from your side.

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