Few months back I met this really cute and goffy guy from dating app. We got an instant good connect. We met 5 6 times and we both did had a crush on each other at start. But now I feel I’m really falling for him, but idk what’s from his side. It’s been 2 months we haven’t met but we regularly talk over text. I don’t guess we can have something. So now how do I move on??
Sanket @sanket
You are contradicting yourself here. You feel for him but on the other hand, you don’t think you have a chance, why so? Have you tried taking a step further?
It’s like for now we both don’t wanna date neither each other nor someone else. But couple of few back I posted an ig story stating that if someone has a crush on me just lemme know, you literally have no competition I posted this on my private account even he is added there and he then added the same post on his close friends story. At first I replied to that like it’s my stry you copied it so he saud yes and we laughed, then when I said I have a crush on him and asked if there’s ssly no competition so he replied that there’s a bit of competition but he doesn’t wanna date anyone. So I said leave it then no chance, (And long back I told him that I didn’t wanted to date anyone and focus on my career more) so asked me that I didn’t wanted to date anyone then so suddenly what happened, I was like I still don’t wanna. But we mostly talk on a daily basis. We even spend good quality time but it’s always until that, things are just casually, but the more we talk I feel I really like him. Idk I’m stuck in between all of it.
Sanket @sanket
It’s pretty much simple here, you are spending quality time with that guy hence you are having feelings for him. Scrap the past mindset, what you want now? Do you wanna date him? If yes then approach him in such a manner. If he does not want to date then befriend him. Convert your feelings into a good friendship
Just don’t disconnect because you have feelings for him and it will get complicated if you guys continue to connect. Things can turn out to be subtle & simple if approached properly.
Don’t overthink, either date him or befriend him, if this guy means something to you. With time these feelings will do fade off, then probably you both will eventually become distinct. For now just don’t run away…
Thank you this really made me understand things better
Dating apps are not just for dating these days. We just wanna have fun from that.
Yes ik but gradually I’m developing feelings for him
Okayy this might work. Thankss
I’ll try now😂😂
Thank you dude🙂
See…I had also used a dating app…and believe me…you will have to tell the other person about how you feel…unless you speak about it…you don’t know…
Just talk to him…ask him,‘do you see this (whatever is going on between us) is gonna work or not ?’
What if he is waiting for you to take the lead…if not anything…you might have a peace of mind that I cleared things out…😘😘
Stay happy 😊
I did say him that I have a crush on him. But he was just like he doesn’t wanna date anyone and even I said that I don’t wanna date anyone. But this happened couple of weeks back, but now I have started feeling more for him. And I’m not the kind of or type of girl he wants to date.
If you have something for him why not you express it with him?
For move on, I will suggest just keep yourself busy & talks with your friends. It will work for sure.
Nowadays we don’t talk for hours like before but that 5 mins chats gives me the best smile of the day. I did told him weeks back but he didn’t reacted anything much to it.
Honestly you should try more, you have feelings for him.
But if he’s still not interested then it’s better to move on.
He does show interest but not in a dating manner kinda thing. Like he wants me but doesn’t want me. He said I’m the only girl from his dating app whom he is meeting or talking so much and I have seen that on his phone but I feel he doesn’t wanna take things to dating
Leave him then. If he has something for you, he will definitely come back.
Yess I’ll try this
