Few months ago. I had a breakup with my girlfriend. After that many things happened. Now after 3 months she texted me and started talking to me as she was before. But 3 5 days back she again crashed with her ex boyfriend after that i can she the change in her. Some of my friends told me that she is again dating him.
Second thing is after 3 4 days her birthday is coming so all of my friends are mutal too her so even i am invited so i have planned a big suprise but im confussed that should i go ahead im not expecting anything just the thing i have planned this thing way back before breakup.
So should i go ahead or not? I love her now also but im not expecting anything because i know where it will end.
Youβre such a nice person. I donβt know why you guys broke up but the fact that youβre still thinking about making her bday special made me think youβre a niche guy. So about the surprise I think you should go for it. Donβt think too much whatβll happen just do it. It can be a farewell gift for you relationship as well. Plus youβll be ending things on a good note. Also do explain to her at the end that youβve been planning this from before you broke up and that even after break up she deserve it and also make it clear you donβt want to get back together itβs just a gesture to show that you loved her truelyβ¦ π hope God give you strength to move on.