Feminism hasn’t taught me to hate men. But it has taught me to never prioritise men over women, which incidentally a lot of men take as hatred.

Feminism is usually manifested as hatred towards men. That's often subconscious though. 

Women Empowerment

Considering the fact that women are not safe in a city as developed as Delhi, free travel for women would be a good move for ensuring better safety for women in public transportation systems. 

In a patriarchal society, a move like making bus rides and metro rides free for women only shows that we are inferior. This move might help poor women, but what about poor men? Women earn too, and we've been paying metro fare since long so we will be able to do it now too. It would've been good if that money went for the betterment of the education and health departments. 

We don't need free public transportation or a different coach in the metro. We don't need a 'ladies first'. We can lead a fucking life of our own. What we need is equality. What we need is no raised eyebrows when we talk about working after marriage or that we'll come back late at night. It's crazy how we have to plead for our equality in the very first place.

Women's independence starts when she realises she is never/under no circumstances equal to men as there is no higher existence than women,women are such a specie that even god can go fumble in finding faults in them(saying this god thing just to say it/make it analytical because in my view there is no god other than women herself/themselves(which is existential truth as well)(while this poor creature called men finds it in them so easily,I dont know how so easily but as I have had glimpses of masculine consciousness i know how,its honestly a blot on existence itself))and also one thing,as I have said it earlier as well that I have even thought of equating god with evil but never women with men.so the keypoint here is women should realise it as soon as early that it is never equal,it never was,it is never supposed to be and never it is meant to be,women is never equal to men,she is a woman and that's it,it should settle on this and this only.

Education

People thinks feminism means girls slapping boys for no reason, wife's are going to late night parties without taking care of their children and women dominating men over everything.... Wht a patriarchal shitty thoughts ! Its from those movies which portrayed feminists so. I do agree feminism is of various types from different ideologies evolved. But India need feminism as the need of the hour without being compromised a bit.

Affirmations

It hurts so bad when you experience gender bias in family. Where guys are easily allowed to study overseas and do job there whereas In case of a girl you are expected to stay at home after competing studies whether or not you get a job as staying in different city for job is something they won’t allow or if at all they allow then not more than two months. 

3am Thoughts

"I want a cute and naïve girl to be my wife who would be able to experience many things because of me". This is what i said when we were in a group and one girl said she wants a good looking, rich and caring guy to be with her. The group consisted of mainly females and boy do i regret saying this statement there. They went on a full on rant saying things like "oh so you can take advantage of her?" "You yourself are not naïve but want a naïve partner?" "So that she becomes dependant on you and you'll be able to do as you plz?"

They said many things but i guess this much is enough. So apparently they can have a type but i can't.  So am i the A-hole in this story? If yes then why?

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