Feeling like loosing myself, don’t know why this is happening with me, after engagement i am almost every time feeling lost in some kind of thoughts, may be fear of loosing myself after getting in this relationship, i know he is understanding and will let me do my work, but don’t know every time this lost lost feeling won’t let me live peacefully, i need a solution about like really girls life is getting changed after marriage or its just overthinking about same topic… … .
If he is understanding and u guys have talked everything regarding ur work n urself then don’t worry about that… He has accepted u as u r now right… Btw is it arranged marriage?
Yeah its arrange marriage, but this fear of loosing myself actually give horrifying me, unable to concentrate on anything since month
Y do u feel like u will loose urself?
Dont know why, yeah it might be just my overthinking or may be Because people are trying to give me only negative points of marriage
Every thing has both negative and positive i guess… But i don’t think that u will loose urself… U may change little bit but happily… Same will go for ur partner too… But it won’t be such a big change that u lose urself i guess… So don’t worry about losing urself… Its always in ur hands to change or not
