everyone is so certain that relationships are everything. i’m not saying i don’t think they’re important but i think love is overrated. 

Love is the worst idea they’re brought into this world after capitalism 

Agreed to some extent . coz if people have some common sense and be open with stuff I guess half of the problems which usually faced would be gone.
Secondly it depends with the person who you are with .

Romantic love might be overrated, but not love in general. Love is the sole purpose for living, at least to me. Loving people who are close to you, yourself, loving what you do, your work and hobbies

Love

What's the best way to stop yourself from obsessing about your ex (it's just been 3 months since breakup) 

Breakup

There's shit that breaks my heart every day & I try so hard to be strong but it's just making me cold on the outside. 

i feel really bad.
ive had a boyfriend for a few months now, he was really nice and loving and spends holidays in france (i visited him there but i had to go home before him).

he had to go to a wedding there with loads of people he didnt reallt know and a few girls started hitting on him which he told me over whatsapp. he said he was just going to turn them all down but after a while he said one had started getting a bit more intimate so i said can u turn her down please? he said he was gonna go and make the most out of being in france but i said to stay just for a sec

he said that since he couldnt see me he was going to have sex with her just to relieve the stress.

this made me feel really bad so i asked him not to but his phone died and it only came back on at 3am the next day (i pulled an all nighter because i couldnt sleep) and he said that all they had done was kissed and hugged and that he didnt do any more because it 'didnt feel right'

i have really bad trust issues but i feel like he might be lying however i dont know and he seems to be being a bit colder over text even though he assures me hes never going to see her again

im sorry for the vent, but any advice on what to do would really help,
sorry.

Relationships

Sometimes you just need a hug 🫂

3am Thoughts

I'm so sorry but please don't think me weak, pathetic or attention seeker for what I'll say now..
I'm a 18 year old human and i recently gave my pre medical exam and i won't get my desired college this year so I'll be taking a drop for preparing again for it
But you know what, I'm completely broken because my friends are going to college and now I'm feeling left alone
No, actually the people whom i thought to be friends till now were just using me to pass their time, just to showoff through sns
So my friends left me, even my bestfriend
I failed my exam by not getting a decent college even after studying hard for past two years and i was just a financial burden on parents, i even gained weight by sitting and studying for long hours 
I know it sounds kinda stupid but this exam was everything for me since i put my soul into this and being introvert it's just so much hard for me to ask for help
I feel lonely and i always wanted to have someone who can say me, "i know that you're not okay"
Actually i help everyone how much i can but no one even cares for me, why?
I'm human and when i get hurt i cry and feel left, lonely and sad too
No one actually cares about my feelings 😓, and no one cares to ask me how I'm doing 
I've had a feeling of self harm since months and now i feel suicidal but the thing which is holding me is my family
I can't see them in trouble even after i go, i can't be selfish just to think about me even now
But i have feeling of self doubt, being useless, burden, and i feel like I'm a parasite who's sucking all my parents efforts by not getting results 
I sometimes feel like giving up on my dream of becoming dr but at the same time i want to hold on for a little more
I don't know what wrong I've done for my friends to leave me
Please give me some genuine advice🙏
I request you all, i think I'll not be able to handle this hard time now


Career

Anyone from nanded? 

Other

Pretty privilege exists, I don't know why people deny it and try to sugarcoat it with words like 'Everyone is beautiful', 'People are just being nice'. Did anyone else experience pretty privilege or saw someone experiencing it? 

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