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If you or somebody you know is currently struggling, please take deep breaths and reach out to somebody. Here are few resources that may help.
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@thesadblackunicorn

Easy for you to say “koi baat nahi, pata toh tha hi na”
You don’t know what it’s like to be a failure in the eyes of your own parents. You don’t know what it’s like to be changing fields completely at the age where everyone is already financially independent. You don’t know what it’s like to hear “you are worthless, useless child” or that “tumse toh umeed bhi nahi hai ki tum budhape mein kaam aogi”.
Easy for you to say M when you haven’t come down in the cut throat competition.
I am not saying that you don’t have your own battles to fight, but atleast don’t comment on other’s life, especially when you know about me and where I am coming from. Atleast don’t crack jokes on my anxiety and be so heartless with your w6ords. They hurt, they really do.
I hope you never wake to words “isse accha toh baccha hi nahi hota”

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Naked Soul @nakedsoul

True…!!!

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Anonymous

Bhai. Phir nanga?

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Anonymous

I understand your frustration.
I know how it feels to be called “Useless”.
I know how it feels.
I know how it feels when you want to do so much for them but could not do it.
I know you criticise yourself even abuse yourself for being incompetent.
I had even punched many times on my face for not being smart, constantly being compared to my brother who is smart.
I lost everything in this process.
I had been a good child, who would listen to their parents, did what they wanted me to do but still considered a failure.
I know of every single kind of frustration one gets.
But all I wanna say is, you are not alone in this process.
I don’t know how but don’t give up. Not yet.
I am not giving up so you must not too.
Remember one thing . Process doesn’t matter but the result do.
Endure for now, i can assure you one day you would be proud of yourself.
Just imagine someone who is going through the same talking to you.

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@thesadblackunicorn

Thank you… really. I don’t want to go through this alone.

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Anonymous

You aren’t alone. Not just for today but for eternity.
Just don’t stop.
If you consider your today as hell then why would you stop there. Keep moving forward.

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@thesadblackunicorn

Today itself my father said, “tumse apna khayal nahi rakha jata hai, humara kya rakhogi. Bekar hai aisi ladki ka hona” just because my newly pierced nose had an infection which happens after every piercing you get… 😂 so this happens on daily basis, anger edition is upgraded version.

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Anonymous

That last line 🔪😓.

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Shivay @shivay2595

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