Does anyone have any tips on how to make a long distance relationship work without being clingy. Here I mean, beginning a relationship while away from each other.
Mujhe filhaal nahi pata if he’s ready to put in that kind of effort. Woh bolta toh hai ki he’s putting in effort par mujhe kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki main ki hoon is relationship mein. Usne kaafi baar mujhse bola haj ki woh logon se attach nahi hota, logon ko miss nahi karta par meri yaad aati hai. Mujhe nahi pata ki mujhe kya karna chahiye
It’s just that there’s this constant fear that I am being clingy. I clarifies this with him and he said itta toh jaq banta hai tera. The fact that it was not him but me who made the first move will continue to haunt me forever.
He has also said that he doesn’t not know if he’s capable of having romantic feelings but values our companionship. It’s just that think there’s an unequal distribution of efforts and I don’t want to force him into working towards something he’s not a 100%sure about
How much effort is too much effort though? Both of us like our independence and sometimes it feels like I am bothering him by calling him everyday. Today he said, yeh calls zyada nahi ho rahe? (as a joke) and it really hurt me.
I am having a long distance relationship and i am dyin to have that clingy relshp its very simple and sober here ,
