Do yall ever feel happy bout the people in your life and the friends you have and then all of a sudden feel like they don’t fit anymore, like you/they changed. Like i’ll feel like i’ve outgrown them or something and i should find people that fit me better, gives me hella anxiety 🥲
You’ve outgrown them in what way like can u explain?
Like for example my best friend, we’ve known eachother for years, ever since we were children. I love him more then anyone else and we’ve been through a lot. I’d do anything for him.
But… even though i feel like that i can’t help but feel like he doesn’t fit in my life anymore. Like we’re to different and he makes me feel stuck in the past.
But then i also don’t wanna lose him. 🤦🏼♀️
You love him like a friend or?
Try and talk to him about this. See even if you both are different but you’re still friends right but if you don’t want to lose then talk him about how you feel stuck in the past. That can help
Yes as a friend. And i probably should talk to him about it yeah.
Thank you :)
Piya @piyakaurbajaj
Yes! Totally resonate with that feeling. You should be friends with people who really fit you. We all grow through life and sometimes the people around might not fit us and that is okay. Life is about growing and moving forward.
I would personally suggest you to go out there and make new friends and connect with more people. AND with the old friends create distance do not just cut them off.
i hope this helps AND I am incredibly proud of you!
Thank you for your advice!
You’re very kind 😌🙏🏻
Piya @piyakaurbajaj
No problem at all. Here for you!