Annie hill @_annie_
Do u think that escaping from ur daily life for a few month helps in healing like for example going to live in someplace temporarily so that one can live the peaceful life again and save themselves from everyday mental trauma and stress?
Annie hill @_annie_
True I think my decision is right enough earlier I was afraid thinking that what other people might think about me if I leave from a place suddenly
A change of lifestyle can work wonders sometimes. Sometimes you need break from the monotonous life.
Annie hill @_annie_
I know right it will help me in forgetting about bad stuff
It may help you forget bad stuff or it may not. But it will surely remind you that life is more than just bad stuff happening to you. Sometimes we need things that remind us of this fact. Hope this trip or change of lifestyle give you what you want .
Annie hill @_annie_
But what about my mom who is going thru the same thing but she can’t let go of her responsibilities and I am afraid what will happen to her if I leave her .
Do you have bad past because of mom ? Or you have common bad experience ?
Annie hill @_annie_
No we have common bad experience I will say she had gone worse she don’t deserve this she did a lot good and hard work but she isn’t treated right by my family and by people outside . she was a very strong woman but now as time is passing she is not able to be so strong she is herself getting crushed inside and it pains me
Take your mom on a trip with you. And tell your mom how you see her as a strong and independent woman and tell her its okay for her to rely on you at times. She has additional responsibilities and you are one of those , right ? So when she can see that you can take good care of yourself and are mature it will relax her. Plus it will improve your bond with your mom.
Also take your mom to that trip 😁 have some mother daughter bonding .
And dont hold back when your family treats you and your mum wrong. Dont take shit from them.
Annie hill @_annie_
I can’t take her on the trip I don’t have money I m just 19 but I think taking her to my grandma house for one day will make her feel good( I will be staying there for about 1 month .)but my family will again taunt her on her returning back or maybe worse .When she cries I just feel like killing everyone who did this to her I feel bad
Calm down okay. You take her to your grandmas place. Also please grow thick ears to those taunts. You and your mom chill. If they do it more just leave the house and stay somewhere else. But for that you gotta be independent. Thats why you focus on yourself first. So that you can take care of both and your mom.
Annie hill @_annie_
U re right
