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Anonymous

Do man really like dúmb girls because I am actually a book worm ,I have independent and strong personality and boys actually don’t like that one of my friend once told me that man don’t want smart women they want dúmb girl who can listen to them and not put her point and don’t appose him really do man really want such a woman because I am really tell you guys I am 23 and single never had boyfriend because I was focus on my studies now I have job and everything but boys are like you are not my type what is your type them just explain I am open for every opinion

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Anonymous

Like you have strong opinions ( once a man told me this because I was talking about women’s free education and self defense and woman should work after marriage too) that they can’t have such strong personality that their vibes didn’t match ( I was talking with one person on chats and calls last year and then we decided to meet I go all read with gift for him after our lunch I paid for food because I asked him for date he deny that and he also deny my gift 50/50 offer and at night he was just like you are kind a different not in bad way but I can’t continue this I said ok but give me proper reason so he said your vibe is not my type) I don’t know I now have self doubt I am wrong somewhere?

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Anonymous

Like any reply of mine I’ll dm you we can be friends a true lawyer never miss a chance to connect people 😂 ( I am just joking)

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Anonymous

Even if you are smart and strong. If you understand someone and talk with the other person without any judgement. The other person can act like a child and be open with you then there’s no issue. It’s vice versa you too need to be like this.

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Anonymous

You know boys judge me before talking I have try so many times I have even proposed one of my crush he was in same department from mine but he was in junior post he reject me because I was earning more than him what should I do about it I am kind of person who can do anything for people whom I love but I really don’t feel that man want to look behind my personality man do compliment my outer beauty but never appreciate my knowledge and work it’s kinda hurts but ok it’s their choose at the end

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Anonymous

Ohh the reason might be different for different people for rejecting.

Maybe you need to find someone out of your circle. Then it might click. Maybe find someone who is in different profession.

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Anonymous

May be I should try 😂

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Anonymous

I’m from different profession btw 😂😂😂

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Anonymous

Acha which one may I ask?

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Anonymous

IT support

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Anonymous

Connect karte hai na👀

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Anonymous

Do I need it support in my life 🤔🤔 let me think 🤭

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Anonymous

Arey yaar… Kya pata laptop ya system kharab ho Jaye. Main toh phone mainbhi expert hu. Yeh meri expertise hai. 😁😁

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Anonymous

Acha ji free mai kaam karoge tho mera reply like karo

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Anonymous

Kya hua??

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@kai_06

Well if you are a smart girl then sure would really like to talk coz i couldn’t find any smart girl till now means they were smart but still some what doing dumb things or stuff😅 so let’s connect & see how things goes and happens if you don’t mind.

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Anonymous

Why?

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Anonymous

😂 ok

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Anonymous

You should enjoy this then have fun

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Anonymous

Thanks man I appreciate your warning 😂 God give me power to handle this 🤭

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Anonymous

Well if you don’t mind then we can connect and let the things get roll coz to find smart girl is very rare in the crowd and whoever rejected you were either dumb or couldn’t see that a girl is smart enough and can earn more than him so it would be really nice to connect with you if you aren’t having any problem or issue in it.

Anonymous

Yes you are right boys don’t actually want the book worms…what they really want is the real love thing it has a lot inside it…once you enter into mutual relationship…then only you come to know what are all those…and can understand too…
May I know your id

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Anonymous

I am ready to give 1000000% you know for me my family my profession and my love have most priority but may be I am doing something wrong I need love advice 😅

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Anonymous

What the ***? No never.

You know one of my veryy close friend is like you, she is bold, independent, NOT DU MB. And you know what? I love her for that. I really do. I really can’t go along with someone who is someone (no hate) but that’s just who I am.

I love girls who are bold, who loves to take their own decision, have their OWN voice, don’t agree on whatever the other person says and use their own brain, I hope you got what I mean…

So it totally depends on Person to person, please, please, please be as you are, you will definitely gonna meet person who will admire you for your personality.
As I said about my friend, I admire her, respect her. And that never makes her any less than other girls, no, she is still girl, and I just soo soo love her personality.
So be as you are. You are unique and that’s your value! Cultivate it.

And I wish you get the right person who will adore you for your personality.

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Anonymous

I love my personality I can never change for someone but strong person also need love I am here to give my all in my relationship for someone but may be on one wants it yet

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Are you pretty?

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Anonymous

I don’t know I can’t say I am ugly when people do look at me when I go out.( in a good way) 🤭
but beauty lies in the eyes of beholder right

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Anonymous

Definitely There will be someone who will like you and accept the way you are. So stop worrying and live happily 😊

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Anonymous

I am happy hope you are happy to

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Anonymous

That’s the spirit… Keep rocking

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Anonymous

fascinating thought actually i dont think there is any debate about what guys like becoz they like everything and about being independent and smart i guess there is chances that egos will be clashing and there is only rare guys who can understand that so it means u r asking about a rare thing

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Anonymous

Tell me one thing does it matters to you that girl earn more than you? Does it matter to you that girl want to look after her parents after marriage? Does it matters to you that girl have little more knowledge about something than you? Does it matters to you that she pay for dates? Does it matters to you that she don’t want physical relation before marriage? Does it matters to you that your boss appreciate your girlfriend? Does it matters to you that your parents appreciate her more than you? Tell me honestly? And I just want to clear I am a person with 0 ego yes I have self-respect more than anything my self respect is important but I don’t have ego I can say sorry 1000 times if I am wrong

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Anonymous

Well about your questions i dont think these things matter for me cmon on it is sweet if my girl pay something im really get proud if she earn more than me even i will push her and that is good if she is more intelligent that is something rare to find and for me personally nothing matter above things but im not your person too and plus im more open minded about things

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Anonymous

You are sweet not many man have this kind of thinking or I am in different universe I really don’t know 😅

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Anonymous

Ahh that is kind to call me sweet and yeah that is rare i told u and i think in any relationship freedom is more important and u r on earth madam still maybe next some we can talk about mars 🤣🤣

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Anonymous

Freedom I important I know and trust also and No not about mars I love Saturn let’s talk about that one

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Mutual understanding i think and cmon u wanted to live on saturn on those rings i like rings of Saturn but i also heard that on Jupiter some kind of rain happened and diamond fall from clouds 🤔🤔 rather than water

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I don’t want diamond because they don’t have any use in my life right now but i heard that Saturn have unique rotation pattern I would love to see that but i love my earth and i love my India ( it was unnecessary I know 😂)

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You r the first that dont want diamond and about Saturn i think most unique thing that i found its satellites and cmon on earth is always best place and i like my home more than anything 😇😇 but still i think we can aquire property on saturn of course with your help 😇

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Anonymous

See diamond is just a stone ok people just react extra why should I spent money on something which I can buy on lesser price (there are fake diamonds too right use those) and we can go on Saturn and we can have all the planet on our name then we will give the land on rent there you know but for that we need rockets and technology science and I am not good in that

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My reply in under review 😅 I swear I didn’t say anything wrong 😂

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Anonymous

Tbh about diamond i know that there price is never fixed like gold maybe due to supply and demand things and about Saturn i think it is great idea to give property on rent and im not also good in science maybe ask someone who is good in this matter and i like to aquire all planets 😇😇 maybe im little bit over ambitious but i like venus too

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Anonymous

Its habit of now & me to put thought on reviews 🤣🤣

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Anonymous

Ok

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