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Anonymous

Do girls like it when a guy ignores or doesn’t give a damn about her?
I have a crush on this girl, I even tried to make a move but she just neglected my whole existence as if I’m not present.
I got pissed and decided to ignore her too but from that moment she actually started talking to me and passed some hints so even I gave in but as soon as I did she stopped taking to me
WTF is this!!!

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kd @kdd

Stay away from mind games. You’ll never regret it.

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Anonymous

Ill explain it in simole words. She has issues and this is display of one such issue. She isnt emotionally available and treats you like a game of catch. The thrill exists only till she wants to have you. once you show interest she wont. Would suggest to simply give upon her. If you wanna save yourself from therapy and mental trauma, ignore her. If you wanna be desparate and ruin your emotional wellbeing for years to come and lose your ability to trust new people would suggest you to continue chasing with the girl and involve with her.

Anonymous

Guru ji 🙏,
So the problem lies in HER, it’s not normal to have a ignore game and all…
Speak the language of the hearts❤💞

kd @kdd

But you’re doing that too! Doesn’t make you mature either. Why are you indulging in the same behaviour yourself? Blaming her might give you validation today, but you’ll have similar experiences in the future also if you don’t change yourself. Remember, like attracts like.

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Anonymous

Wahi bola bhai isko. But launde na desperate ghumte hai bahut. Thoda sa bhaav mila aur gaye ladki ke peeche.
Ladki ko problem hai, jindagi is ladke ki kharab honi hai. Mera kaam samjhaana tha, samajh jaaye to achi baat hai varna therapy to aage kaam aayega hi.

kd @kdd

Are whatever you said it’s right. I’m talking about his interpretation. Ye sab uspe daal raha hai.

Anonymous

Shi btt yaar!!!

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Anonymous

arey bhai mene kuch nhi bola vese… the person who commented is not me

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Anonymous

I’ll try…

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kd @kdd

Oops…sorry!

Anonymous

Reverse psychology…🤓

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Anonymous

so what’s the soln

Anonymous

So true man, sorry i forgot
I didn’t blame her, it sounded like it did…
But yeah! Don’t indulge into that game.
Keep your standards, no matter how tempting the partner appears, it’s doesn’t compensate with immaturity.

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Anonymous

but the more I ignore the more she drops hint and ofc I’m not a bramhachari jisko aesa kn chahiye 😭

Anonymous

Ask her what does she wants,
SIMPLE

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Anonymous

if only it was this easy!!

kd @kdd

Be strong and have that conversation and be done with it. At least, you’ll have clarity.

Anonymous

It IS my friend,
You are making it hard…
Aur milengi bhot, esi feeling dubara aengi, bss ye dekho reliable source se arhi hai aur kis way mei
I understand the feel that u get when she drops hints, it’s irresistible, but
Look at her and ask, straight man

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Anonymous

I’ll…
try

Anonymous

Godspeed 💫

kd @kdd

Good luck!

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Anonymous

That is very manipulative behavior, may be she just wants to keep leading you on, just talk and tell your feelings honestly, that is better then just being led on without knowning what she is thinking…

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