**DECISION**
I just want to share these words from my favorite movie 

"Sometimes, to do what is right we have to be steady, and give up the things we want the most, even our dreams"

Our own discernment based on the context of the situation. Sometimes for different situations the proper decision varies from people to people. It’s more than a right or a wrong decision. Error could be a better word. It’s about what one can acclimate too and what one can avoid (error). Approaching anything this way removes the inner judge based on personal bias. 

Reason and logic is a good tool to use,  it doesn’t work out all the time, due to our ignorance. Intuition is another. 
One other thing is to hold your decision in mind and see if it makes your body go strong or weak. The one which in essence varies higher in integrity, will make your body go strong.

What do you think about that?

Hey there. I find this quote fascinating. Thank you for sharing it here. What movie are you quoting it from?

How to you interpret the word “dreams” in this quote? Is it a craving or a natural wanting?


Dreams

I am 33 year old. I have been married for 6 years and i have a kid of 3 year old. i work at a electronics retail shop. i joined as a partner. he is my fried. because he is my friend, even after me performing bad, my friend has asked me to draw a fixed sum of money every month. i know what he has done to me is a big thing still i dont feel grateful and work hard.my wife hates me for this and keeps fighting with we. still i dont feel that i have to work hard.I feel tired all the time. i feel i dont have any energy. i dont feel like doing anything. i feel am a useless person and cant do anything in live. nothing can happen to me.  i jus keep looking at my mobile and scrolling at youtube videos. i thought i am not liking this work and i started a new venture of snacks repacking. i buy snacks and i pack in my brand name and sell it. i have invested in it and still i dont feel like working for it. i love my kid. i love playing with him. 

i want to earn and buy a house and buy my favorite ford eco sport car.

Depression

I hate myself soo much that I am still in love with my ex. He treated me soo bad. Its been 16 months since he broke up with me and he is still my priority. And I was never his priority. He would choose some random person he met a day before to spend his time with over me. And I still leave everything that I am doing if he wants me to do something for him. He doesn't give a fuck about me and still I am hopelessly in love with him. I still text him(desperate texts) and I get replies only sometimes. He texts me when he needs something from me. I met him almost after an year a few days ago because I wanted to see him and he met me because he wanted sex. I know he doesn't love me, and doesn't give a fuck about me and I know it's not good for me to be stuck with him but I just can't let him go. I was a person who never cried even in the extreme conditions and now this person makes me cry every time with his actions with his words and I feel so weak. I just wanna fucking move on and forget about him but I can't.  

Breakup

My Partner dosent support me emotionally.  She always leave or behaves her own Way When i m hurt feel Not soo good mentally. When i neend Her she is not there. And she is Like u need ur time alone so i left I think you should not leave Your partner in difficult times right

Relationships

How are we all feeling today my dear friends :)

3am Thoughts

"Suraj na ban paaye to ban k deepak chalta chal
Phul mile ya angare sach ki rahon mein chal ta chal
Dil wo dil hai jo auron ko apni dhadkan deta hai
Jeena uska jeena hai jo auron ko jeevan deta hai"( was listening to an old hindi song) and it was such a masterpiece...the words holds sooo much meaning but alas for our generation its nothing but a mere words....
I was crying while listening to this song because I was such a soft hearted...full of love kinda person(I still am but I rarely show this side of mine) this world has shown me alot of things that now I feel scared at opening myself...everyone just used me as their own benefit...but okay this is what life is...I still have some hope left in me thats helps me to keep going...
Idk why am I writing this but I feel like todays generation including me is becoming soo shallow...btw 
I hope you guys are alright
I'm just at my overthinking phase again
Thank you for reading 
Have a good night


Have you ever given a thought about why bad things happen to good people and good 
things happen to bad people

I have figured it out that's what actually happens .

￼ One of my senior told me that 
Life actually works in long-term

We become very happy when something happened in short-term whether it is depressing someone insulting someone in front of a girl And impress her

Or become very bad in  situation where we  wins but morally we don't have to.

So what happens is ￼ these things installed in our subconscious life manifest it as ￼ We do bad things and every thing will happen good and other side but it doesn't happen when a person becomes bad at every time the long-term effect will also be bad this is very broad and you have seen that bad thing happened to a nice man
￼￼ but in the long term if you see the growth the happiness the mood the family all will be affected nicely with a nice man.

￼ And God will definitely do good things to the nice men and bad things bad man

God ￼ may help bad person to win the situation with the bad things 

￼ but God will not support the bad things at long-term basis he will definitely punish him out0 be aware


￼ And become a nice man because environment shapes the human

And you become what you believe 

Competition

Any Peaky Blinder fans here?

Happy

Always dreamt of you this way but you had different priorities.

Hai Tamanna Humein
Tumhein Dulhan Banaye
Tere Hathon Pe Mehndi
Apne Naam Ki Sajayein



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