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Adri Farm @adrika

Days just pass by and as it goes i feel duller and uninterested in everything i loved . My life as a whole feels so flat.
But I’m very fortunate to have everything like a loving husband and family, good job, well settled, anything i wanted i have it. But i still feel empty or lost somewhere , i know this is not my old self , i have just become the dullest version of myself.
Could anyone want to talk and help me through this feeling?

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Adri Farm @adrika

Hey there

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Going to a psychologist of assesment or talk about depression might help you the most.
It seems like you’re depressed or hitting a low/ emotionally drained.
Take good care. If you need any other help hmu, I’ll be happy to help.

Adri Farm @adrika

Thank you for the support. I did consult a psychologist but i couldn’t continue and keep up with the sessions. Cause no one in the family knows , if they know they would be terrified and treat me differently which would be hard for me in this situation.

Sanket @sanket

Can a good job, a loving husband, and a nice family be a possible reason? As in since all the major aspects are at the good end of the graph, there are fewer challenges, perhaps lesser changes in life, can something similar be the case behind your dullness?

Have you tried enabling yourself and your family to newer levels? What possible change could bring subtle mood here again?
Remember being back to an older version of yourself is not something you should look for. Instead, a newer version with newer features is how usually the versioning works

Adri Farm @adrika

I’m ready for the new version including the things I’d like to do and not altering my character . But here it’s more like i have to go their way. And that isn’t ok with me all the time. And they don’t want to communicate about anything.thats serious just constantly avoid it.

Sanket @sanket

The restrictions and their way of living life are natural. Note that your environment has changed completely. Your role has transformed into a daughter in law. Your duties have changed.
Your character needs alteration, one cannot be anyone’s partner without altering or adapting their character. Can water stay as is to become a lemonade? No right? It needs to absorb all the qualities of all the ingredients to become a lemonade.

If you adapt to their rules first, become a loving member of their family and then perhaps you could have that chance to raise the things you would like to do or would like to change.
Adaptation at your end is a must in order to find your own happiness. You need to be connected deeply with your family first.
Your partner’s support is also crucial.

You have that potential to enable yourself and your family at newer dynamics, you need to find the way!

Adri Farm @adrika

Well whatever you have just said i am that to this family. They connect with me better than they do within themselves.
The point is they expect too much from me if i do something that i won’t be able to to everyday for them like things they are to take responsibility of I’m supposed to take care of now. And there is a limit to what a person can do. I just feel over drained cause there is too much of giving from my side and i receive less. I feel taken for granted.
A healthy relationship goes to and fro. This seems mostly one-sided and it’s extremely draining. It’s like I’m their personal super hero or I’m having to mother them all including my in laws. It’s very difficult.
It’s easy to say from your side it isn’t always as it seems.

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