DAY 2
[of telling my story with this guy until I feel like I’m over him.]
~THE FIRST RED FLAG~
[…] at this point we’ve been texting non-stop the conversations were full of excitement and fun even when i get second guesses he never let me doubt with his efforts of keeping the conversation going and not boring, one night we were casually chatting and he shared a post with me that talked about a certain topic and said:“i also do treat my girlfriend this way” to which i replied: “did you mean your ex?”, “no my girlfriend” he repeated, at this point i was so confused he just told me about his last break up and how it was so rought on him and twisted but then i decided to confront him right away “you said you’re single what was that for?” to which he said “my new relationship is a secret i don’t know if you can tell but i don’t share it on my socials no one knows about it not even my friends, i didn’t know if i should’ve brought it down to you” then i needed to know for how long they have been together he said for 3 months, ‘okay now what?’ i asked myself, well i just played it cool while i wasn’t really feeling it i didn’t understand what was in his mind while it was clear that some chemistry was there, and something beyong a friendship was the motive, i understand that my feelings could have been wrong but i always trust my gut feeling it really can rarely be wrong, meanwhile eversince i shifted my intentions and i really started REPLYING to his texts instead of TEXTING/TALKING back, he kind of noticed the change it wasn’t a major one but 1 week after i just started being myself i replied to him as if i’m replying to one of my friends, while he kept talking about how perfect his relationship was and how beautiful his girl was; my replies were honestly as cold as ice because i couldn’t care less i started replying late lefting him on read and answering coldly (it was all real for me and not a show) BUT he kept texting more and more, he didn’t gave up besides the attitude he was receiving which led me to wonder ‘why he’s still talking to me if he has a girlfriend’ shouldn’t he just be invested on her completely, i mentioned to him this several times that it does not feel okay for me to text someone who’s taken but he just plays it confused and ignore all of it and kept texting as usual. One morning specifically at 3 AM I got a text from him saying: “I broke up with my girlfriend I’m going crazy I don’t know what to do! I need to talk to you”…
thank you
