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Couldnt clear my government job exam and love of my life calls me selfish , as I discuss alot about career with him?Talking abt my career and sucees make me selfish?

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@patient2000

Male ego. Disrespect in relationship can be a queue to a toxic atmosphere. Love should be more about growth than just comfort. Talk and discuss this openly in one go. This thing is common when your partner feels inferior wrt to you. If thats the case just comfort him and make things clear at the same time drawing lines.

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No it doesn’t…

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The answer to your question is big NO. There is nothing selfish about thinking for yourself because if you won’t think about your career and yourself, then who will?
I think nowadays every woman needs to be financially independent so that nobody could overpower her. You are not just somebody’s partner, you yourself are a human being, it’s obvious you will think about yourself.
If he is not comfortable with you discussing about your career then discuss it here, maybe he has something else on his mind.
But if the problem is male ego and he does not support you being financially independent, then that’s where you should draw the line.

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