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Okay, so my best friend had a crush on me for like the longest time I’ve known. And a few months back, I told him that I liked him as well, but on text. And we decided to try being in a relationship. But there’s this thing with me where I just don’t like someone for long. 3 days past and bam, he hasn’t asked me out yet. A week, still not. Just texting. I told him that this is not gonna work out, also because he hardly steps out of house, and I broke up with him in a week, even without seeing him once. A week later, I thought that was a foolish decision and I wasn’t over him. And, I told him so. And we still haven’t met. We thought of trying again. Two days from then, no message. We broke up again, this time for sure. We thought we were better off as friends, and anything we do might scar our friendship. WELL GOOD. But now, a month since that, we HAVENT TALKED. We met once, barely talked. No eye contact either. And ugh, he was supposedly my first boyfriend. And I broke up with him twice, even without seeing him
So I decided to message him because after all we were really good friends in the first place. And I’ve been going out along with him because we have the same friends group. I messaged him:
Me: Oye are you ghosting me or something 😂(emoji to make it seem light)
Him: Nope, naah
Me: waah
Him: what?
Me: Leave nothing
Him: atleast I am ghosting someone
Me: What? Matlab?
Him: Leave nothing
Me: seriously!? Bye.
Him: Bye.
Wow, I feel so done now.
Wow…😅 cute lil relationship…
So it’s true once you step up from best friends to gf bf then there’s no stepping down…
Now there’s nothing you can do to be just friends again… You can try but in the end it will be of no use…
Yes what sanjain said is right…
If you guys can go without talking for weeks and then when you talked you two were like Bye Bye 😅
He is not trying to get in touch with you, you are the one doing it…
So no efforts can be seen from his side…
May be he realised that he doesn’t love you that was just a attraction !
Or if there’s something else then you must ask him what happened !??
Still we don’t have the complete data of your problem… We don’t know the actual reason for his such behaviour …
But the another possibility is that he realized that was attraction…
If he is not telling you directly then You can test him by making him jealous…
Don’t worry everything will be fine…
All the best for your future…
I’ll try that. Thank you so much!
I had a same situation with my best friend (girl),
So my close friend told me once if you really want that person in your life keep your ego aside and try with your whole heart. if it’s really meant to be it will happen.
In my case I would say falling for a best friend it’s really bad idea it ruins our friendship if it doesn’t work out.
